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so i have a boyfriend for over 5 months and i kind of want to break up with him because i want to be single but im scared because i know his family and like im afraid they will hate me and im scared because all my friends think that we are like THE CUTEST COUPLEand stuff but im scared cuz like i think that i will miss him.. but i really want to be single and just have fun im not ready for a major commitment so i dont know what to do help me please and if i do break it off with him what should i say??..... should i write him a note?? i dont know help me please

Listen you have to decide what you want and stick to it, otherwise your image will suffer. People won’t respect you. You have to be honest with others but also with your self. Why do you want to be single? Is it a good enough reason to dump some one? You can’t have everything. Once you’re single again you’ll miss having your boyfriend, guaranty it. Will you miss it more than being single? Also think about the longest you have been in a relationship and why it ended. Are you usually the one to end a relationship?
A lot of times people get in the habit of finding someone they like (not really getting to know them) and going out with them. Soon after thought you realize that you’re not compatible or that you weren’t ready to be in a relationship in the first place. What does this do? It results in a bad habit. The fact is we like guys because they make us happy, since we are so emotional that is a big thing. The problem comes in when we can’t find ONE to make us happy. Some how we get it stuck in our heads that the more we have the better. We find a boy, it doesn’t work, and we find another, than another ect. Not only do you get yourself a bad reputation but it is so hard to brake the cycle. You may be thinking what does this have to do with my situation. Well if you decide to be single you can’t decide a week or to into it that you want your boy back. My rule is stick with something for 6 months. I know that may sound like a long time but really its not. Every thing has its tough times. I say stay with him a little longer and if it doesn’t work he will understand. Next time be sure you are ready for a commitment.
Sorry this was so long and I hope it helped.

hannah

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