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He's a junior, i'm a sophomore. Yeah, he's a nice guy...not anything like a jerk, alcohol, or smoker. We don't really talk to him that much, but we do talk and according to my friends he's shy.
I'm told to just go for it. I'm just too timid to do a direct approach. Going together as friends is what I've wanted to do. Even if i have a small crush on him.
It's not like i have no other plan, i've got a reservation with friends too. (link)
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go for it. it cant hurt if you still have other plans. if you're too shy to directly ask him and you can't get over that, and i know its kind of cheesy, but just slip him a note or something that isn't 100% direct.
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15/f. well me and my bestfriend always dress up for halloween in pairs. either as something similar or total opposites. like last year we were pageant winners but i was Miss Serta Matress 2005 and she was Miss Maxwell Coffee 2005.
well this year we have no idea what to be. like i thought about being tinkerbell. but then 1) what would my friend be? and 2) i thought it would be a little slutty.
any good ideas? and if you can tell me how to make/buy the costumes.
thanks so much guys!! (link)
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well if you were tinkerbell, or just a regular fairy, your friend could be an evil fairy. and in general, there are probably a lot of good/evil things you could do with a variety of costumes. if you're into wicked or the wizard of oz at all, you could do a galinda/wicked witch thing.
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my summer vacation started in june. its now october and i have been grounded since the first day it started. not grounded from material items. just from everyone i was friends with and i cant even go outside! im going insane. i never did anything wrong. my mom said she just doesnt like who i was friends with. soo now that i couldnt see them, i lost them. im down to 1 friend and a boyfriend. i tried to make new friends but my mom wont let me go anywhere. i know shes just trying to be protective but this is crazy! im almost 16 and ive only been allowed to see my boyfriend since june. i feel like im a prisoner in my own home. im so depressed over it and i have no idea what to do. what can i do? please help im going insane. (link)
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i'd talk to your mom and try explaining to her that you're willing to make new friends if she doesn't approve of your old friends. and just in general, try to be as compromising as you can with what she may have issues with. but tell her that being grounded this long has really cut you off from a lot of things you could've experienced and that its really starting to affect you negatively. plus, with school starting, she should realize that she's taking you away from a lot of the fun, social gatherings that high school offers. hope this works, or hope you figure something out.
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Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff was there and he moved them when he saw me come in. But I’m not sure. So then I sat down. And he actually started talking to me. Full attention, and smiling. He asked me questions and asked if he could see my phone. Then I cought him once or twice lookling at me. And I’m not sure but I THINK I saw him put his foot near mine. But I was looking up, but I think I saw it at the end of my eye but I’m not sure. So mabee that doesn’t count. So does he like me???
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To me, that sounds like a guy thats either interested in you. There's also the chance that he's in general a friendly person, or a big flirt, but it seems like you might have something good going for ya.
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