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Q: Hi.
i just recently discovered that I was gay. I was in denial for 3 years, and i finally realised it was killing me inside. I am homosexual. Im scared though . I don't know how to tell my parents, and i don't know how to tell my friends.
HELP ME DOCTOR!!!!!
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Hidy ho right back to you!
I know this is probably A scary point in your life your probably very confused. I've dealt with many patients with your same type of confusion. YOu dont know where to go and how to tell your loved ones:
for one just so you know you are no different than anyone else don't think of youself as any less, afterall, all men are equal.
When it comes to your friends it easy, just tell them, if they accept it good, tey probably will say, "We knew it all along." and that's not a bad thing. Now when it comes to your family PARENTS that's a little bit trickier. There are many ways of telling your parents your gay one way is the it could be worse technique I've seen this done and it usually results in crying and is not the best way but it is one way.
where you tell your parents Im dieing of cancer, and then they may get very emotinal and you say I'm just kidding, I'm just gay. THis is something I don't recomend it's a way of getting around it but it's not the best. I've seen parents come to me devestaed because there kids told them they wer dieing of cancer, and the reponce from most of them I wish they wouldve just told me straight up, "Im gay." so thats the best advice I can give you. I hope it works out for you.
Please tell me if this works
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Q: My girl friends think I'm a whore, because I slept with a guy.
I don't think I am.
You see.
It all started at a party where there was alot of drinking me and this guy I just met got drunk and went into our friends parents bedroom where we did the do. My girl friends are really mad at me and say I'm a whore, but I was drunk and he was cute. Is that really my fault?
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Listen. You're not a whore, you made a mistake, lots of kids do. It was a very stupid mistake don't get me wrong. First of sall Don't drink in mixed company, and if you feel you must drink in mixed company, don't drink to the point where you get drunk. If your under 21 I would advise you to stay away from alcohol all together. YOur girl friends have a right to be angry with you, you must admit, but dont be upset with them because of that, try to undertsand there point of view, an let them know that you know you have made a mistake and you realize what you did wat foolish. I hope this works for you. Please respond and tell me if it does
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Q: Hey Dr.Solution
Im having a problem and I need your help, everyone at my school keeps saying I'm gay. And it's killing me. I'm not gay and I'm certain of that. THey just say I am because I love theatre, and I like things that they don't like, things that arent even necesarilly girls things. The call me, Fairy, fagget flaimer and all sorts of nmes and its really just killing me now, I dont know what I should do.
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Think not of what others say about you. Think only of what you say about yourself, you know your orientation. Ignore these kid's eventually they will leave you alone. Try and hang around a new croud, be yourself most importantly don't change yourself for what others think. You are unique, we all are. Don't go changing to try and please other people. If this does not work for you, please let me know and maybe you can talk to me on my screen name and we can discuss this.
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Q: Yo Doc,
My teacher says masturbation is perfectly normal but the pastor at my church says it's wrong. What do you think?
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Well,
Dude!
Masturbation is considered normal do to the fact that it is practiced by billions of teenagers everyday. But what I think you are asking is i it is morally right, and to answer that it is based on your religion. Some religions such as christianity say it is wrong because it is spilling your seed, but many others say it is normal and healthy in early days in some cultures such as the greeks. It was practiced even more than it is now.
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Member Since: December 7, 2005 Answers: 4 Last Update: December 7, 2005 Visitors: 1052
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