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does anyone have any good advice on how to have the perfect hairdo or style so u can make boys heads turn when u walk by? (link)
the truth--boys like natural looking girls..every guy i know likes it when girls have little or no make up they dont really like all the fancy stuff! just let your hair dry naturally with a wave or scrunch it but dont put so much gel or mousse in it that it looks crunchy! :o)


is there any way to get rid of freckles? (link)
nah..if your a billionaire then yes..but girl whats wrong with them!? so natural..they make you glow..dont worry about them be yourself!! they make you look naturally beautiful without having to look like you're covering them up with loads of makeup! just put a little lotion on then a thin amount of powder and go! :o)


where couldi go to buy free 80s clothing ... not ebayi already tried that... i donno how to do it ...i need 80s clothes for my parties i have and stuff ...i am A HUGE! 80s person im only 13 but i want 80s clothes the 80s is my life i dont wear 80s clothes to school only to parties i need free 80s clothign online only .. where ase some good places.... NOT EBAY! (link)
BUY FREE 80s CLOTHING? kinda oxymoron-ish dont you think?


Hi, I'm a 14 year old with some hair touble. Before I was in sixth grade, in had gorgeous, naturally straight, smooth hair. When I got to sixth grade, I found that I had to get up a lot earlier for school, so stupidly I took showers and washed my hair at night, and went to sleep with it still wet. Doing this for an entire year really did a number on my hair, and now it isn't smooth or straight at all, and when I let it dry now without sleeping on it or anything (like I did before sixth grade), it still comes out wiry and frizzy! I've been using a straightener for the past year, but I have to do it every day, and I know that the heat damages my hair (same with blow-drying). I need a solution so that my hair will dry smoothly (without heating) when drying naturally. Please help. (link)
you'r hair isnt frizzy because of your showers..its because your hair still is wet when you go to straighten it! i had a long talk with my hair dresser about this same problem and he said to get it back to normal do many hot oil treatments and condition it evvverynight! be careful not to brush your hair when its wet..COMB it..brushing will also cause MAJOR frizzyness because it breaks through your hair to get the knots out.. dont worry it'll get to how you want it..it just takes time :o)


Will Clorox Bleach bleach your hair? I don't want to try it out and find out that it works! This isn't really important but I would apprechiate it if you would answer this.
I appoligize if I didn't spell apprechiate right. (link)
CLOROX WILL KILL YOUR HAIR!! girl dont think about puttin that in your hair!! it'll totally frizz it all up! keep your hair natural..if you want it lighter get highlights done at a salon or buy them at the store to do yourself but PLEASE dont BLEACH your hair! have you see what it does to your CLOTHES..imagine what it'll do to your hair! you'd have to condition it reaaallyyy well! i think you'd strongly regret it...


my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff???? (link)
talk to your parents tell them who you are with what you're doing and where your at and when you'll be home..get it? just go ahead and tell them what you would like to do..but don't be like 'this is what i'm going to do' be like 'do you think it's alright if i..' it saves a lot of chaos..try it out..and smile be nice in the tone you ask.. :o)


I have recently found out that my son and his family attend openhouses, birthday parties, and weddings. They bring a card, but no gift of any kind. They say they can't afford it, but I know they can spend money other ways, in needless toys, fast food, etc. I told my son that I thought this was tasteless. Their turn will come soon and people will remember. People will see their material things and will not understand why even a $5 bill couldn't be put in a card.

Am I wrong feeling this way? (link)
it is your son's descison on how to spend his money..you can inform him how you feel but still the descision comes down to him and his family..money doesnt make someone happy anyways..its the thought of the card..the thought of someone taking time out of their life to care about you




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