Member Since: December 5, 2012
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This is going to sound like a really stupid question probably, but how can I get a guy to think about/wonder about me and or miss me, without actully talking to him?
There are two different guys I want to care more..one I can't talk to anymore because we just stopped being friends because he doesn't put in the effort to our friendship anymore. I want him to realize what he's lost, and I want him to miss me and try again..I just need him to realize this himself.
The other guy I used to hangout with pretty often, he's a cool guy and i liked the feeling of flirting with him, and him being around. But he hasn't hungout with me, or hardly talked to me in like a month...I want that to change but without me having to come out and say it I suppose. I'm friends with him on 2 social network sites so Ive tried posting status' or even a picture that I knew he'd see and maybe decide to hangout with ne again but no. He's asked me twice probably in the last month "hey what're you up to tonight?(:" and I'd say nothing, just hanging out why? And hed say "I was gonna ask if you wanted to hangout but I'm actually too tired/:"
So you just got tired in a 10 minute span...yeah okay what's up with that?
Anyways yeah, obviously I'm confused and any advice would be appreciated. Thank you (link)
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ok 1st of all people no matter what gender can not read minds! you can not magicly make a guy think about you or change for that matter. my best advice is to move on your still young, you will find plenty of boys around. maybe after you giving up on them they will realize but you can not make anyone do anything they dont want to do or dont know how. but if you tell them whats really on your mind and how you feel they might just change for the better. no relationship (friendship, marriage, bf/gf, ect) can grow with the two people talking and telling them what they need and want out of the other person. if one person chooses not to change or make an effort he or she is not right for you.
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