Website: ask me anything!!
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: carey2809
Member Since: January 9, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: January 13, 2006
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what should i do..my boyfriend fomr 4 months just dumped me and i love him so much!! and i had no idea it was gunna happen it was so random and now im like depressed and i think his likes this other girl..but i kind of like this other guy but not NEAR as much as i LOVE TOM!!
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well... i know that you were like really in love with him bc thats all u talked about at practice. but some things arent ment to be. i dont know if you remeber how i was after i got dumped by my last bf, but i was totally depressed. nothing cheered my up. but now that im like looking back at it its like i realize how stupid i was to let it bug me.
find out if this other guy likes you. if he does...give yourself a little bit of time like 2 weeks or so then go out with him or some other guy. it'll help you get over tom trust me.
one of my friends always says "whats in the past stays in the past. you just gotta keep moving foward."
its a really good saying and yea trying to live by it is really hard, but its the best thing you can do.
if you need to talk about it, practice starts on monday. :)
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okay so my boyfriend and i are happy, but its so hard to make things work. like im always the one trying to make plans and im always the one calling him.. he barely calls me and 99% of the time when i call he either ignores it or doesnt answer. and when i leave a message he never calls back! hes also a big flirt too... i dont want us to break up, but idk what to do... (link)
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ok. have you tried talking to him about this? most boys dont even realize what there doing until someone points it out. when you try to make plans with him.....does he normally go with it?
him being a big flirt isnt good. that shows that he's probably a huge player.
about the whole calling and not answering or calling you back. this might be hard to handle....but he might be using you and any guy that does that doesnt deserve to have a girlfriend much less one who's trying to make things work between you too.
i had a boyfriend like this last year and the biggest mistake i found out was staying with him. it caused so much drama and in the end i was really upset and hurt. he did the exact same thing, not calling or calling me back, but at the same time i thought things were fine.... this ones hard to deal with expecially when you REALLY like a guy, but in the end its better if you end it than him.
Try talking to him about it first, if he doesnt seem to care then its probably best if you to split...
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