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hi. i read your other readings and liiked how you answered them. well heres my problem:
my good friend (id like to keep HIS name unknown) smokes and hes been doing it a little before last summer. i keep telling him its real bad for him and he just laughs and either walks away or changes the subject. well he went to the doctor the other day and found out hes having problems with his lungs do to his smoking, so now his parents know and everybody. now you're prolly thinking its to late to help him really now, now that he is sick, but i dont know if i should be hanging around him. not only is second hand smoke bad, but i cant watch one of my best friends hurt themselves. what should i do?
jess (link)
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well i have some guy friends that smoke too, but i dont and neither does anyone in my family. but all i can say really is be there for him when he needs you and tell him how you feel. tell him that you dont want to be his friend anymore bc you cant keep seeing him hurt hiself and then maybe he'll wake up and relize that smoking isnt cool or good for you. hes only been smoking less then a year and hes already sick, if he keeps going down this path, what would he be like in 5 years? would he even still be here? tell him exactly how you feel and come back and tell me what his reply to you was bc then you would know weather to be his friend or not
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hi! my very best friend since 1st grade blew me off me during christmas break 3 times. then i go back to school and all she does it walk with and talk to him at his/her locker and then he walks her to class. im in 2 of her classes and hes in both of them . in science we are always lab partners but today she again blew me off for him so i got stuck working with this total geek! but im afraid if i tell her im mad im worried she'll accuse me of being jelious and not hang out with me and you know the whole silent treatment thing but if i dont tell her, my best friend could just slip away and id lose her and i sure dont want that, but i also dont want a friend who ditches me all the time. what should i do.
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girl desprate for advice (link)
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hey! umm my advice to you is to go talk to your friend because i would rather risk her getting mad than to just sit there, lossing a friend and not do anything about it. and if shes a true friend, she wouldnt be treating you like this bc eventully they're guna break up and then she'll all of a sudden start hanging out w. you again?!? no, thats crap. so go talk to her, tell her how you feel, and if she gets mad, its her falut, bc shes stupid enough to chose a boyfriend over a best friend shes had a lot longer, eventully she'll come to her sences.
xOxO!
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