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mm.. yeah my names shannon, ask me any question and ill try to give you good advice. kay thanks
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I really like this guy. He likes like my best friend and it makes me frustrated, but I really want them to go out. I just wish he would ask me to be his Valentine, but I don't want him to use me. Ya know what I mean? Ugh! I am just so effing frustrated. Please help?
ok well first of all.. if he likes your best friend then that's probably not good that you like him.. if your best friend doesn't like him back then maybe it's okay but it just depends how she feels about him. secondly, you really just need to decide what you want. whether you want them to go out or you want to like him cuz you can't have both. and thirdly valentines day isn't really a huge deal. like everyone acts like you have to have a valentine and stuff but you really don't it's not that bad not having one as long as you have your friends with you. hope i helped!
so i have this friend, and we've been getting in lots of fights lately, and she's been stabbing my best friend in the back recently and me too, like she will act like she is our best friends but then once her other friends come around, she'll totally ditch us to hang out with them, its like we are here :temporary: friends or soemthing, and its been getting really annoying lately. so yeah should i confront her about it? or what?
ok first of all.. she doesn't sound like she really wants to be your friends, it sounds like she's just using you.. and she probably is. and if she's been stabbing you and your best friend in the back then she's not even worthy to be your friend.. it COULD just be pmsing but it seems like this has been going on for a while now. i think you should talk to her about it and ask why she's ditching you and doing all that other stuff.. if she denies it then there's definately something wrong. if she says she's sorry make sure she's truly sorry and not just saying that as an excuse. if she gets mad there's no excuse for that and tell her that you're not listening if you're gonna be mad. if you really don't wanna talk to her about it then don't and see if she keeps doing all of that. good luck!
ok so valentines day is coming up and absolutely no one likes me and i think we are having a dance so like what do i do because i don't want to be there like by myself because that would be stupid so what the heck do i do?
ok first of all.. i bet hardly anyone who's going to this dance has a valentine. also.. how do you know that nobody likes you?? have you asked every single person that you know? nope.. so somebody might. aaand you won't be there by yourself you'll be there with all your other friends! besides most people said they have a better valentines day without having to go through the trouble of getting a present for someone and having to be commited and can just be with your friends. they're more important than any guy. good luck though!
ok so i have this friend and i really like him and he likes me too and we hug each other all the time yady yada you get the picture...anywho my best friend also really likes him and so does my other friend and my best friend knows but the other doesnt and i cant help but feel bad for us liking each other and i dont know how to tell her but i know i need to before somebody else does. HELP!
omg whatever you do NEVER LET A GUY GET IN THE WAY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP! trust me its so much more important seriously! its okay if u like the same guy. if one best friend knows, then shes ok with it because shes still ur best friend. dont tell ur other best friend though because she might not be okay with it. dont tell her but if she asks say u kinda like him but not alot. seriously though never let guys get in the way! hope i helped!
okay so i have these two friends and we are like so close and we always have a lot of fun together...but latley they have just been keeping me from things...like secrets...and i admit i wasnt the best on keeping secrets last year...but now i am, i mean ppl change and i was one of the ppl. And i can tell like they dont trust me, and it really hurts my feelings when they dont include me in what they are talking about, do they like not want to be friends with me n e more? why cant they trust me?
maybe theyre doing it purposely and theyre gonna throw u a surprise party or something is it ur birthday soon? also, maybe they dont know that uve changed since last year, think of a way to show them that you have. good luck!
shannon~i like u so much and im madly in love with you, but it seems like u never notice me! what do i do?
CALL ME! DUH! or atleast talk to me!
i have this friend and we have been friends for about a year now, and i hang out with her and this other girl, all the time, but lately it seems like she likes the other girl we hang out better than me, and we are suppose to like everyone of us equally, and sometimes shes really mean to me, and sometimes i feel like shes using me in a way. help!
ok first of all, the other girl probably just told her something and now they have a new inside joke or something. also, i bet she doesnt like her better. maybe u just need to take a break from each other and u know like rejuvinate. shes probably not using you either shes probably ur friend. maybe ur just a little paranoid right now. if you feel like she really doesnt hang out w/ u enough nemore then talk to her or get someone else to. good luck!
Hey Shannon,
I don't talk about new clothes or anything else because I never go on big vacations I brealy buy new clothes, and people shouln't be mean to me if I don't brag. I mean sometimes I'm just like "WHAT THE HECK!" You rock! Thanks for the advice!
after u told me all this, ive decided... theyre such losers if theyre mean to u and dont like u! i guess invite someone over or... OMG THROW A PARTY!!!! and have like everyone in ur grade come and itll be so awesome!!!! good luck! ask me for help if u need it!
Hey Shannon,
thanks! I act nice, but they just don't seem to be nice to me. You know what I mine as well just leave Hyde Park next year. Thanks anyways! You rock!
u shouldnt leave hp thats crazy! just give it time and see what happens. also, try not to talk about any new clothes or big vacations uve gone on, it might help! good luck!
ok so i like this guy and hes like my best guy friend and has been for about 3 years and i like him and he likes me but he's a little shorter than me...and i dont know if i should go out with him not because hes shorter than me because he's only a few inches shorter than me but do you think it would be weird?
of course it doesnt matter b/c u guys both like each other, thats all that matters! especially since hes only a few inches shorter than you. if he was like a foot shorter than u that would be a different story but hes not. so go right ahead!
Why is life so... unfair sometimes? Why does half the grade hate me? I don't know why, I never did anything to them. They think just because I'm an only child I'm spoiled rich, but I'm not. It's not fair to me. I just wish my life was better! I HATE IT!
i bet nobody really hates you. theyre probably just jealous of you. even if they do hate you, maybe its because you act stuck up or snobby sometimes. maybe you should try being nice to like everyone and ppl would see youre not really what they think you are. and if they do hate you, theyre probably not very good ppl.
Okay I really like this guy and he's like really cute...not hott...but cute or adorable that's more like it! Okay look this guy is like absessed with his X and is funny and I really like him. How do I act around him to make him not relize that it is me that likes him. And how to do I if I am ready or when the time is right to tell him or what to say when i would like to tell him. One last thing he is like a total babe...and so funny! like hilarious! He's the "jock" of the class. Everyone likes him and is like totally popular. I am not the most popular person at my school but I think I have like a lot of friends. But will he ever notice me? You know who this is and well ya know. Much love to you.
yea i do know who ur talking about and he is really hott, but i think u just need to give him more time to get over his exgf, u know how it is when u just cant get over someone. just like give him hints, and make eyecontact w/ him but dont stare at him. ull know when the time is right. it will just come to u. trust me. he will notice u if u follow ur instincts! good luck!
is it wrong to want to make out with one of your ex boyfriends whos like a fott taller than you and older than you even if your sure you would never go out?
no u really shouldnt b/c if u already went out w/ him and broke up then obviously its not gonna work out. especially if ur sure u would never go out w/ him again. also, it doesnt matter that hes a foot taller than u. use a stool!!! no jk.
ok well there's this girl and she was my friend but now she bugs me alot. she has a really horrible personality and cusses way to much. i used to think she was my best friend but now i don't see how i handled it. i can't speak a very civilized word to her and even when she IM's me it takes all i have to not block her. she really bugs me and i kinda make it obvious but she just can't take the hint!!! what should i do?!?!?!
ok well i know who ur talking about and they are really annoying. we all know she didnt like mo ranch but thats her loss. seriously try talking to her and tell other people to. if she really does get annoying, just block her!!!
ok theres this guy and i really really like him, and idk if he likes me and he goes to a different school...what do i do?
first, make sure ur friends before anything else happens and u know him good enough. dont ask him flat out if he likes u, just like give him hints. if he does something back he does, but if he doesnt then just be his friend.
okay well there is this guy that i really like and we went out for like 2 months, but then it was summer and we broke up cause we would never see each other...but we had decided that we would go out the next year...but now my best friend said that he doesnt like me n e more...but at the same time all his "buddies" say that he wants to go out with me again...and i dunno im just sooo confused about everything...and then i think that there is this other girl that likes him and they flirt way too much and it bothers me...HELP!!
ok well first of all, ask ur friends to ask him if he still likes u and stuff. if he does then just talk to him about regular stuff. if he doesnt its ok u can still be friends. also, maybe next time just dont break up w. him...
omg i have the worst problem!!! i really really really like this guy and hes really really hott. the only thing is hes kinda bad, actually really bad. he like steals stuff from ppl and cusses alot and stuff but i dont know what to do!!!! help me!!!
well first of all u have a right to like anyone u want even if they are bad. u shouldnt but u do. maybe u should try talking to him or his friend or something and tell him what hes doing isnt right. also, if u dont wanna like him, try thinking about the bad things about him instead of the good. keep me posted!!!