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Q: WEll MY PROBLEM IS THAT MY FRIEND IS ALWAYS BUGGING ME WITH MY NEW BOYFRIEND! SHE SAYS HES A JERK AND THAT SHE CANT UNDERSTNAD WHY IM GOING OUT WITH HIM AND CRAP! IT GETS REALLY OLD AND SHE BUGS ME 24/7! WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HER OFF MY BACK AND WHY IS SHE DOING THIS?!
she could possibly be doing this because you have a boyfriend and she dosnt! if she does then it could be that she feels your spending to much time with him or shes loosing your attention and your giving it to him! ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR FRIEND! getting her "OFF YOUR BACK" really isnt the problem its getting her to respect your relationship with your boyfriend..let her know that you really do like him and that despite everything she dosnt understand you do understand it! sometimes you need to let them know how your feeling to get them OFF YOUR CASE! just take things with time and soon she'll respect your desicions but REMEMBER>>>DONT LET HER RUIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND! YOUR PROBLEM IS WITH YOU AND HER SO DONT DRAG HIM INTO IT!

Q: THE THING IS THAT I LOVE THE SPORT BASKETBALL BUT NOBODY ELSE IN MY 'CLIQUE' DOES! THEY ALWAYS BUG ME ABOUT QUITTING CAUSE ITS A STUPID SPORT AND THEY NEVER GET OFF MY BACK! SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO PUNCH THEM BUT I KNOW THAT I CANT CAUSE I MEAN COME ON THEIR MY BEST FRIENDS! SHOULD I STILL PLAY OR quit??
you should DEFINITLY still play!! if you love it play it!! theres no shame in that! leave your friends alone with it! tell them that you totally respect why they dont like it but its still fun for you! and ALWAYS REMEMBER if your still having problems with it you always have your basketball friends! all the girls on the team are still your friends and they enjoy the sport like you unlike your "CLIQUE" does... just let them know you love the sport and thats final! always keep playing if you love the sport DONT LET ANYONE ELSE RUIN ONE OF YOUR DREAMS!

Q: well lately, I HAVENT BEEN DOING TO WELL IN SCHOOL AND MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN DRIVING ME CRAZY!! THEY ALWAYS TELL ME THAT IM NOT DOING EVERYTHING I SHOULD AND THAT IM DUMB...THAT I WONT GET INTO A GOODD HIGHSCHOOL WITH ALL OF MY GRADES AND I DONT KNOW WHY I GET THESE BAD GRADES CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME!!??
well take it back to your study habits...do you study without any distracitons at all?? are you in a total calm enviorment where nothing can make your mind slip...another way to study better is to study a few days in advance so your not cramming it all in on one night..if you read over notes, the chapter, do practice, memorize, and study without distractions you should be good...if the reason is bad in school try to raise your hand more or participate alot this gives you more one on one attention with the teacher and they'll be able to let you know what you did wrong or what you did right.. if you still have problems go to your teacher in spare time this will give you alot of one on one and you'll be able to talk over your problems and know whats the matter! this will greatly improve your grades! TRUST ME!

Q: I HAVE A huge crush ON MY BEST FRIEND!! HES SO CUTE AND ADORABLE AND HES TOTALLY SWEET BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT HES MY BEST FRIEND!! ITS BEEN KIND OF AWKWARD HANGING AROUND WITH HIM LATELY CAUSE NOW I LIKE HIM! IVE ALWAYS GOTTEN JELOUS WHEN HES DATED OTHER GIRLS BUT NOW I NO THAT I REALLY DO LOVE HIM!!! SHOULD I GO FOR IT OR LET IT REST A WHILE??
this ones a toughy because if you go for it and he dosnt feel the same way it could possibly ruin the friendship or end up making it awkward.. but if you dont go for it you'll be stuck with all these feelings longer and it will make it even more awkward for you..i think that you should go for it but hit to him gently so its not just all of a sudden I LOVE YOU!! if you let him know and he feels the same way then your golden and you can move on with a relationship but if he dosnt feel the same way then give it some time and he'll soon relize you guys can still be good friends! BUT REMEMBER TO TELL HIM SLOWLY SO HES NOT IN TOTAL SHOCK ABOUT IT!! good luck!

Q: well i feel like dirt.. all these really popular, pretty, girls call me names like fat, the blob, and they alwyas say ya want some peanuts elephant...it makes me feel so bad! i dont no what to do because no matter what i try they never seem to get off my back!...what should i do??
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well..... i no that when someone is being mean or making fun of you thier feeling insecure about themselves and want to bring you down so they can geel up..i no this sounds like a cheesy saying but its true! stand up for yourself, have some confidence in yourself, be proud of yourself! if all these things show you'll look even more confident which will make them think its ganna be hard to bring you down..and if they still try to...dont break apart,,stand strong and that will show them your ganna start standing up for yourself! you could even do some extra sports so youll have a reason why they cant call you all those names!! just remember..if you look confident youll feel confident and soon become CONFIDENT!

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