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Alright this is the situation.. im a felmale an I like guys alot and theres alot of guys that like me.. so ive herd.. but guys dont want to get serious with me .. im a very out going person and the guys love to hang out w/ me and like do things and normal i like it cuz its like i can b/with alot of guys and c which ones i reali like.. but then when it comes down to it and i like a guy alot then he still doesnt want to get serious. and then its like thats the end of that beacuse he doesnt wana start a relationship with me becuase (this is the most herd 1)"man shes so fine all tha guys try n get w/ her n i dont want that if im goin out with a gurl" .. but its NOT my fault! OR a guy will like me 1st and then its like i kinda like him too but then once we go out or get things going... i dont like him all of a sudden i guess u can say i like a challeng.. but once i find a guy i reali like.. he's with some1 else.. WHATS WRONG WITH ME? (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you. Some guys get intimadated with really pretty girls. At your age I dont think its neccesary for you to settle down maybe you should just have fun hanging with the guys. If you really feel that you wanna get serious and go out with a guy that you like sit him down and talk to him. Tell him theres nothing to be afraid of, if yall go out youll be only his and no other guys. Tell him how you feel straight up dont weed around the bush tell him! Well sorry it took a while to answer but i hope i helped let us know if we can do anything! Cindy and Melissa
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dear i have this problem i jus cant stop masturbating its jus everytime a porno comes on i jus pull it out and i jus cant help myself wut should i do!!!!???? (link)
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well i think it is normal at ur age for guys to masturbate when they get aroused so umm it's not somethin to be necessarily worried about i guess. however, i suggest layin off the porn for a while; that will help with ur situation. just stop watching it. find somethin better to do: play a sport or go out with ur friends cuz if ur busy then u wont be tempted to just "pull it out".
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Dear Pinkmelonz2401
i just got over a really bad realtionship and im only like 14 n it was really bad hed hit me if id talk to one of his friends.Right now i like a boy alot but im kinda scared for another commitment.I think he likes me because he wants to kiss me and hes touchy feely with me.I ve expressed how i feel to him and he told me that he tells everyone he likes me but he wont ask me out. i dunno mayb u could help me!signed lost n cunfused (link)
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First off, make sure your ex is out of your life, i have no respect for any guy who hits a girl. In your situation, its normal for you to be scared of another commitment. Liking another boy may help though. Maybe hes not ready for a commitment either, and the both of you need to sit down and talk. Work something out like you guys just dating no big commitments or anything just where you can hang out with each other and have fun. Kissing and the other other stuff is okay too. Eventually if everything works out you two will end up going out just take things slow. Remember that just b/c one boyfriend may hit you not all guys do and try not to let yourself not trust this new guy that you like. I hope I helped you let us know if we can do anything else!! Cindy and Melissa
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What do you do when theres a guy you are "talkin" to but you don't really know how he feels about you but you're too shy to say anything because every time you try he just sayd "chill" or something..and you really like him and at times you feel he really liked you...but then you'll go two days without any contact...am i bein dumb for feelin that he doesn't like me sometimes? (link)
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Well this is a tuffy. Im sure he likes you but maybe hes scared of anything becoming to serious and he doesnt want a commitment. The next time you try to talk to him, try to talk to him in a different way like in a note or sit him down and just be like i really want you to listen to what i have to say. All i wanna do is ask a question and i think i deserve an answer not for you to block me out. Its nothing complicated and commiting but i just want to know. Maybe if you ask him this then he'll tell you why he acts the way he does and it can bring you guys closer. Good Luck! Let us know if we helped any! Cindy and Melissa!
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hey there girls first off i want to say yall are so nice for doing this but i have a problem i dont have any friends and im 12 is this normal? and i really like this guy at my church but he doesnt even seem to notice me hes perfect short a lil chunky but so cute and charming how do i get him to notice me? i mean i think im a fairly pretty girl and i just have no friends and this guy wont even notice me? how do you girls have friends? (link)
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u just need to be urself. u could go up to this guy and introduce urself. im sure he already knos who u r. u have to be more confident in urself. do u like this guy for his personality or his looks? cuz its whats inside that really matters. this is how we get friends just be ourselves and introduce ourselves and have fun. thats the key-have fun.
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wat do u do when u dont have control ova nething in your life (link)
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Well first off this should never happen go out meet some friends introduce yourself to new people go hang out with the people you love most and live life the way you want slowly in time you will begin to regain some control
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well there is a gurl that likes u but shes to nice to jus let her go away yet u dont realli wanna hook up wut would u do. (link)
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well i am a girl and i dont like other girls but in a guys case maybe you should talk to her and hang out sometime explain to her that you dont really want a girlfriend but maybe yall could just date its called comprimising dating is almost like going out just no real commitment you can also try hanging out with her with some other people so its not just you and her
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yea one time i went to the zoo and met this giraffe/i felt like really attached to the animal so much that every time i see him i want to get closer/u know how hard it is to tell a animal how u feel bout them so hoe do i do it (link)
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Well ya see i hate to be mean or anything but maybe you should consider going out with some friends ya know having some fun and not getting so attached to animals thats just not normal
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ok well i was on my friends computer and i was on his sn and his brother was on aim in the other room and his mom was usin the computer and i im'd him thinking his brother was on the computer and im like "dude i think im gay "i like the dick" and his mom saw it and thought that he was writing that to his brother rofl (link)
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hmmmm..... i think u should tell ur friends mom that it was u just messing around on the computer but only if she asks you. if she doesnt ask then she probably knew it was a joke. im sure she will understand. parents were kids once too!
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so wut is da fashion on cloths now this dais lol well if u have ne suggestion tell me lol (link)
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well since we r such fashionable ppl lol this is my advice for clothing these days:
guys-the faded jeans with a collared shirt is always cute ya kno the abercrombie style
girls-these days the cute lil mini skirts with the collared shirt and flip flops is in right now and really cute
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