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Hey guys! The name is Mary, but you can call me Mair.I absolutely LOVE giving advice. It's so fun to help other people and I love cheering people up. No matter what's wrong, I'm sure I can put a smile on your face =) So, if your looking for advice, or just need someone to talk to, come to me! You can IM me, but ask for my screen name first, kay? I'm used to ALOT of drama happening in life, so I'm sure I can help.

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Member Since: July 29, 2006
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Last Update: August 10, 2006
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Dear MaiRxxB3Ar

Well I like this guy and well hes my friends brother but he doesnt even know me or know that i like him .. and this other girl likes him too. and shes sorta my friend but like i dont want to tell her cause she really lyks him.... what should i do?
Signed,
Confused

Dear confused,
Well, if shes really your friend, then she shouldn't get mad if you like him too. If there is a really big age difference then I would kinda just forget about him. Find someone your age. If he is about the same age as you. Talk to him more. Get to know him. And if your friend has a problem with that, then talk to her about it. Say, " look, i really like him too so lets not fight. I don't want a boy to ruin our friendship." Good-luck!
Hope my advice helped =]
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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Dear MAiRxxB3AR,
some of my "friends" are accusing me of things i dont do. i feel like i have no friends anymore. i'm like really depressed because of it. i was in the car today and i must have been showing some kind of saddness because my dad kept asking me what was wrong. of course i'm not gonna tell him because he doesnt need to know any of this. i literally trust absolutely no one. like i trust some people but only like 2 or 3. and i dont know what to do anymore. i mean i feel like i wanna cry but then sometimes i wanna laugh but sometimes i just wanna think and sometimes its all those emotions at once. and i just dont like being so confused and weirdly emotional. i'm scared i might cut myself or something worse. i just need some advice to figure out what to do with myself. i hope you can help.
From,
a confused emotional person

Dear (random) confused emotional person dudeeeee,
Jeeeezz. well look, if you can like, trust no one, talk to someone about it. and like, ask these people why they are accusing you of stuff you don't do. that might like, help. you must have SOME friends. i mean, even when im all like depressed and stuff i now i'll like, always have my 2 BFFS ( the raddest peeps ever kelli and marissa ) soo, what about your BFF? like, its ok to cry. when im confused i go up in my room and like, ball my eyes out for an hour and just think and listen to the radio. but then the next day, or later i just laugh it off. i TRY not to be depressed and like,i spend more time with the people i love. its ok to be emotional around a certain age too ( if you even like, are that age or if your just like a fat old molestor or a 2 year old ) soo yeahh .. and don't cut yourself. its not the way to get these things off your mind. if you think about it, cutting yourself isnt helping you at all. it's just making matters worse. like, it just gonna make you worry more, and make people concerned more, and cause alot of like, stuff. Hope I helped. Good-luck, yo!
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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dear mary.
today my mother told me that she was talking to ac's mom at the pool and she said that ac's mom saida that ac likes me but i refuse to believe it. should i believe it or shouldnt i?
from,
disbeliever

Dear disbeliever,
Believe it I guess. I mean, if that's what AC's mom said, then it's most likely true. And your mom wouldn't lie like that, so It's most likely true.
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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Basically there are no right guys that i know that are for me. When will I finally find the right guy? It's hard because I can't actually find anyone to like ; /

HELP PLEASE

Dear " Can't find the right guy ",
Don't worry! It took me a while to find love, too. Just keep looking. eventually someone who respects you and you like will come along! Just remember to be yourself, and don't be nervous if it does take a while.
Hope I helped!
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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I really really really really really like this guy and he knows cause i've asked him out a lot already but everytime he's said no i don't know you that well and stuff like that and i really wanna talk to him just as friends but everytime i go to talk to him i freeze up and i run away and my friends drag me back and tell me that he really wants to talk to me but i don't think he really does. i dont thin he likes me even as a friend "/ what should i do!!! -CONFUSED!!

hmmmm .. well, I suggest that you get all your courage you have, and go and talk to him. some things you could say to start up a conversation are.. " hey .. whats up? " or " hey .. hows your summer going ?" He's just a human being. He's not gonna eat your face if you go up to him lol. And, asdk your friends if he seriously wants to talk to you. Maybe he likes you, you never know! But, be serious with your friends, tell them that it better not be a joke, cause that's just not cool to lie to a friend and embarass her.
So, go for it. I hope i helped =)
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR
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okay so i like my best guy friend and i want to ask him out but i dont want to ruin our friendship.Its hard to do what i want because we are like brother and sister.help me please!
signed
the best friend lover

Dear best friend lover,

Oh my gosh..lol..I had the same exact expirenece. Well, my advice is, ask him out. You never know what he'll say. And it's not gonna ruin your relationship as friends. Trust me. It might be a little awkward for a few days between you two, but things will sort out. I hope I helped, and Good-luck!
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR
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ok so there's this kid and i talk to him online all the time and we always laugh and stuff but i know he doesn't like me but i think i like him and i don't know if i should tell him or ask him out or what to do. helppp!
--a personnnn

Dear a personnnn,
Ok. Well, if you really like this kid, I think you should slowly tell him. Like, kind of lead him on to it. Be like, " soo, what kind of girls do you like? " and " are you single?" He'll eventually get the sign that you like him. And if you really really like him, go for it! Ask him out. Life is full of risks. Take them. If he says no, big whoop. That's his loss, not yours. Glad to help!
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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what should i do about the idian mairrr ... what if he doesnt like me confusionnn

Dear Indian lover,
Well, if you really like the " Indian " then ask him out. It's not like your gonna die if he says no. Life is full of risks and stuff. So take them! If he says no, screwwwww him!
Love,
MAiRxxB3AR

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Yourself

Dear Yourself,
Yeahh .. i know how it feeels!
Love, You

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