well umm im going out with this really great guy that i like a lot but im still crushin on my old boyfriend. Im in love with my crush and i cannot seem to get over him..what do i do?
Well then i think that you should tell the guy your going out with and then he will prob want to dump you..or you can just dump him and say that your not ready for a boyfriend. Then you should like wait a while and ask your old boyfriend out. Remember not to do it to soon or else the guy that your going out with right now will get mad because u just dumped him. Try to find out before it your old boyfriend has any possibility of liking you..you dont want to dump somone and then have no one liking you. So play it safe and good luck. Lyl-liz
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well i no some one used me and had been sending rumors about me around and they arnt true and now this person says they are sorry and would do any thing for me to say its okay to them and they are realy upset but i mean i am upset to cus i was realy realy realy realy hurt do you think i should for give he or she or should i not take there apoigie??
Well you should ask them y they said that about u. If you really think there sorry then forgive them..but if it happens again then dont forgive them.
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Ok i went to the movies with a bunch of my friends and i saw my boyfriend in the theater i was in and he was with another girl and they were making out!! i couldnt blieve him! I really need your help what should i do? please help me!
Well you either let him cheet on you and make you feel like nothing...OR YOU DUMP HIM! if hes gonna do that then you shouldnt let him.
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my friend keeps telling ym some thin i dont wanna hear but she keeps telling me any ways when she knows i dont want to hear it is she a real friend or one that just wants to bug me and be a fake one??
Well maby she is trying to tell you somthing you r not understaing right. Try being her in shoes and see how she feels and maby you will see why shes buggin you. I think you should tell her to stop and if she doesnt then she is prolly just trying to bug you and prolly isnt a real freind. thanks for writing bye!
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okay i have this friend who i think likes my ex but she wont admitt it and when i have asked her bf she gets a po'ed and well i have had many signs that she does but im not sure...should i just let it go??
Well it matters if you like that guy. if you dont then let it go! Or maby you can ask around if you think anyone eles knows if she likes him. Count how many sings that she likes him and how much she doesnt. it just matters how much you like that guy or your friend. If you cant trust your friend then drop her but if you have a slight feeling shes telling the truth then trust her.
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Okay so i have had a couple boyfriends here and there but i havent realy had a serious relationship....but two of my very best friends have. .. i feel sorta weird when they were goin out like how they would talk about it and stuf...i wouldnt exsactly say i am jealous of that certain friend...but i think i am to the point i am ready for a bf...another problem that has to do with this is...i dont know very many guys who r wiling to hold a long realationship...some r but most r'ent!...i mean yeah i have kised someone before...but it realy didnt mean anything to me...PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO HOLD A LONG RELATIONSHIP! thanks for your help!!
well i have been in a long relationship before. i didnt know that i was goin to or anything i just went for who i liked i didnt pick or choose who could be in a long relationship you just need to find the right person. you cant go looking for the right guy you need to find him you will find him soemtime you should worry about that just put all yourself into a relationship and if it works out it works out if not then it doesn then just try again. Also you shouldnt rush into a realationship just let it find you and go along with the pace. Also you dont usually get in long term relasionships until high school. i was jsut luck i found a great friend who willing tput himself into a relationship and just let it flow how it wanted to without pushing thing.thanks for writing!lyls!Kels!
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ok..well this kid i kinda like named bob i broke up with him alike a week ago,when we were goin out for like 11 weeks,then went out with him agian then broke up again and i kinda like this other kid in my grade,greg, hes cool and all but he can be kinda mean which isnt kewl then i aslo kinda like this kid a year older than me,sean,and like when i was goin out with bob i kinda did soemthing with sean which isnt good but bob found out about it well anyways i dont know what to do i like all of them and all but i dont know who i like the most,i want to wait til school starts to see who i liek but i dont want to hurt any1 and when im around bob i act different and stuff but when we r friends i act normal but i dotn know what to do. Give me advice, advice giver!
Wel first of all how come you broke up with bob? Also if greg is mean to you then i dont think you should go out with him...like you said THATS NOT COOL! And also if sean is nice and you like him it doesnt mater how old he is...it only maters if you like him. If you already dumped bob then i dont think he wil realy care if you go out with anyone else beacuse you are already broken up. And if you hurt gregs felings then its his fault cuzz he is mean! And i dont know about sean. . . i mean if you already did somthing with him then he prolly likes you so i think you should just make the decision on who you think is the nicest or who you like the best. Wel thanks for writing. Hope it helps lyl ~Liz
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Ok this is the 15 female again..
He was 16 not a kid i didnt dump him he dumped me and ive tried doing stuff like telling him how i felt but i just dont think its getting me anywhere
Well if he dumped you then that means he doesnt like you. I think you should ask him y he did dump you. If that doesnt work then move on..there are plenty of more guyz! o yeah and whatever you do dont make him mad..try to be nice to him and maby he will respect what your saying..Thanks for writting!lyl liz!
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This kid and i went out and i really love him and we broke up about two months ago, but i'm still in love with him and i really want him back. I have no clue how to get him to realize this though. Do you have any advice?
15 Female
Well first of all im wondering how come your 15 and you went out with a kid? Maby that was the first mistake u made. And second of all how come you dumped him? There has to be a reason that you dumped him so please write me back and tell me some more of the story cuzz i dont know what to tell you know.. heres what i need to know
1-whats his age?
2-why did you dump him?
and 3-if its been 2 months then i think you would have done somthing sooner so why didnt you?
pleas write me back.. thanks!
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ok....so ive got this friend who sisters friend's cuzin knew this gurl that went out wit this guy. but wut that guy doesnt kno is that the gurl has this diesease that makes her not grow any hair on her body. so that means she is bald and wears wigs draws her eyebrows and stuff like that. the guy proposed to her and she said yes. but b4 they get married the gurl needs to tell her fiancee about her diesease. wut should she do o great advice giver?????
She should just tell him. If hes really right for her and they really want to get married he will accept her for who she is. So if he doesnt apporve of it then maby they should get married. Im sure he will be shocked but im also sure he wont care that much.
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Last year I wasn't to outgoing to many friends. But now school is going to start, and I don't think I am all that ready to make friends. That's why popular kids make fun of me, though some dont. But I really try to make friends and hopefully you can teach me a way to make more friends. Please can you help me?
Well first of all, YOU DONT NEED TO IMPRESS ANYONE!! Some popular kids are very nice but some are very mean. You just need to find out which ones to hang out with. Making friends is easy you just have to be yourself and find the right people..if your trying to impress the people that you want to be friends with then you might want to find somone new. Thanks for writing and i hope this helps!
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this boy i liked said he liked me back, he always told me how pretty i was and everything and that he was glad he made me smile so we hung out for awhile and then he said we should start dating so i agreed with it and a couple days later he says he doesnt think we should date i asked him why and he said cuze he likes to hang out with too many girls and doesnt want to hurt anyones feelings..i still like him alot..what should i do?
Well i have a feeling that this "boy" still likes you he just doesnt want to start dating..maby you can say "well im here and if you want to start dating then i want to but i cant sit and wait for you with all these other girls" but if you know he wont like that then i think you should try to move on even though you still like him and if he doesnt want to make the comitment then hes probably not right for you. After he see's you with other boys then maby he will get jealous and and might want to start dating you. So heres what im trying to say in all of this.. you either tell him your going to move on if he doesnt want to start dating you or you move on and he might get jealous. Thanks for writing and i hope this helps.
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i just dont want to go to school! i am so stupid and stuff i feel taht people wont like me!!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well i think you should go to school. You go there to learn stuff so it doesnt mater if your stupid now. AND dont call yourself stupid! If also doesnt matter if people like you..dont try to impress people. If somone likes you you will know and im sure people will like you. Thanks for writing!
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I dont know if i should try out for basketball this year..i dont think im good at it but i dont know if i should try out.
Well if you dont want to try out then dont, but if your good then maby you should. Its up to you. If you like it then try out but if you dont then dont try out.
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