Member Since: November 6, 2018
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There’s this guy who was a friend of mine who I really really really liked for a long time. This summer, I finally found the guts to tell him that I really liked him, and he politely rejected me. I had steeled myself for the possibility of his rejection, and had convinced myself I would be ok with it. But when it happened, it felt like disembowelment. I fell into a deep depression and was crying uncontrollably all day, every day for weeks. I finally hauled myself down to a mental health clinic and they said I needed psychiatric supervision in a mental hospital. I wasn’t able to do that because I have a cat and there was nobody who would’ve been able to look after her. Then, my dad got sick and I had to find a way to compartmentalize this in order to take care of him. Luckily he's better now, so I can go back to my life.
Seeing him in class every week is indescribably painful. It hurts so much just to be in the same room as him that I have to do loads of deep breathing and centering exercises in order to be able to not fall apart. But a few days ago, I just found out the worst possible thing. He is now dating my good friend. She told me that she was really sorry and that she had no idea I still felt that way about him when they got together. My soul is suffering so much right now that I feel like it’s starting to shut down. I would love so much to get over him, but I don’t really see a way out of it. The only way I could imagine myself moving on from this is if someone as amazing as him pursued me, but I know that will never happen. I’m 26 and no guy has ever been remotely interested in me my whole life. What can I do?
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Rejection is always painful and feeling alone at that age is a danger to you know though that you need to stop worshipping this guy and take heart in the fact he is just the beginning love isn't just meant to be one sided so his rejection means he's not the one yet or may never be you are a strong beautiful person inside and out all it takes is that you allow yourself to see it keep searching for love and when you find one you love so dearly that even when you know in your heart that you know you truly cannot live without this person then you must fight to show them how true your love is for the chance for them to see it to. Everyone has someone so no matter who or what you love there is your soul mate somewhere in this world experience the same heartache from not having you there yet my beauties
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