Member Since: April 19, 2005
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Last Update: April 19, 2005
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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering (link)
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friends know you in a more honest light and still like you...I suppose this is what makes them more attractive when you are younger...dont feel too bad about being more in to school at the moment, boys will still be there when you are ready, this is just a way your soul is telling you that you are not ready for it all now, you are not a sheep...you dont have to follow through with what the others do...tough advice if you are a teenager because being different doesnt necessarily translate as cool, haha...but hey, take your time...everything happens in its own time...
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My bestfriend(15) , this guy(15), and I(14) all go to that same church. Now my bestfriend and this guy are going out and their parents dont know about itand are completely against them being friends. There hole relation ship is based on rebelion and she realizes it but says she doesnt care at least not right now. He has hurt her a couple of times and she still refuses to see it. She won't listen to any of her friends including me. What the heck am i supposed to do, just sit back and watch??? (link)
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Well, you're friend has her own life, granted at 15 (the teenage years) folks get more egocentric (only seeing the world from their point of view, kinda like toddlers) and well...the more you say she shouldnt do something, the more likely she is to do it. So quit feeling like its your responsibility to "save" her from herself...she will have to learn for herself...thats what life is about :o)
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