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I'm dating this guy named Brandon. He's everything I ever needed in a boyfriend. He puts me before himself and we play these cute games that only we would understand. We sit under the stars late at night and look for shapes in the clouds. The only problem is that I don't feel sexually attracted to him at all. Yes, I know that sex isn't everything. When I have a boyfriend, I'm usually doing whatever I can to be with them, or to cuddle with them, but with Brandon, I push him away sometimes. If that makes sense?

One of mine and Brandon's friends (I'll call him Chris) told Brandon a few days ago that me and him don't seem like we could be more than friends. Chris is like a brother to me, so he knows me very well. That got Brandon thinking, and he almost decided to break up with me. In a way, I wouldn't have cared because I kinda feel that all we'll ever be is just friends. But another part of me doesn't want to lose him because he's the best boyfriend I'll probably ever have. He chose not to break up with me because he's liked me for a long time (at least 3 years) and he doesn't want to throw it all away.

If we ended up breaking up, I'd still consider him one of my best friends, and I know he'd do the same.

What should I do? Stay with him, or break up with him? If I break up with him, how should I do it? (link)
Hey stick wit him you've been wit him 4 a long time, if he really cares bout u he will stick wit u. Don't wory bout sex u r still young .Okay


Okay I totally like this boy and I want him to find out that I like him and also I don't because of my last crush but he is going to find out soon because my friend is going to tell him and I want him to notice me more just don't say something like be yourself and stuff like that all I want to know is something I can do do get him to notice me. (link)
Try being around him more. When there is group work, work with him. Don't try to give him money as a way for him to notice you. And yes be yourself its the only way to win his heart




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