Member Since: October 29, 2013
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Last Update: October 29, 2013
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I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now, but I'm starting to question what we have. I find myself often thinking about how my life would be if we broke up and then I remember what a nice guy he is. I wouldn't want to break his heart. He makes me smile and laugh, but sometimes I think I've just grown use to him. I thought about breaking up with him about 2 months ago and he talked me out of it and made me realize how much I care for him. Love seems like a too strong of a word to describe how I feel. I feel like such a horrible person, maybe I love him but can't admit it to myself? I'm so scared to let him down. He deserves so much. For the most part, the times I think about breaking up is after any stupid little argument. I think I might not love him but then any girl gets close to him and I can feel myself get extremely jealous,although I never show it. I want to love him, I want to grow old with him, we're so compatible. Help me (link)
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Thats love, never truly knowing what it means, or at least not until you're old. To me, it sounds like you're in the "in between" / "post infatuation" stage. When I say this I mean that you are at the point when your boyfriend becomes your best friend and a person you love. You said you think after breaking up after small arguments. This may mean that you're just looking for a reason to breakup with him. Really ask yourself how different things would be without him. A big question I have is if he has told you he loves you and if he did what your answer was. If he has not, I think you have strong feelings for him but you cant full decide where they're headed until he has. Honestly, you should talk to him and and find out his deeper feelings for you that aren't said everyday. Knowing those will definitely help you come to a decision.
Good Luck:)
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