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Member Since: February 27, 2011
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Last Update: March 6, 2011
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most of my friends have already had their first kiss but i haven't they don't make fun of me or anything but it bugs me that i have never even kissed a boy and neither has my bestest friend and we talk about that alot because we are both worried that we never will. i dont know what to do because i want a boyfriend before i kiss someone but i am almost in high school and never had a boy or my first kiss
i am 14 and a girl (link)
I have said this before to people it's normal and I recently just got over this problem your only 14 take it easy,I'm 15 and a freshman In highschool,last year I even got depressed because I didn't have a boyfriend I would even cry about it...and to be more ironic I would always put myself down and thought I was going to die alone with 64 cats..so just relax take it easy,and never let your friends influence you in a bad way,don't worry your time will come,and mine has too,now I have a wonderful boyfriend :)


Well I’m in 7th grade and 13.
In June I’m moving to live with my mother.
About 3 weeks ago some new kids came to our school. One of the new kids this boy Shane; I thought he was attractive and still do.
Well he ended up in 2 of my classes. My 3rd and 2nd hour.
3rd hour is computer class. I’m at the front wall while he was in one of the middle rows behind me. He sat right behind me 2 spots away. My friend Andrew was right behind me. While talking to Andrew I got chances to talk with Shane
We would joke around about British accents, anime and stuff but that was the end of our 30 second conversations.
I got to talk to him about 5 times or more and I found out that we both like some of the same things such as anime, drawing and so forth.

Well he got moved far away from me in computer class, and in the other class we don't sit near each other either/One day in 2nd hr I saw him briefly glance at me a couple times, or at least that’s what it looked like. But that was it.

I don't know how to really talk to him. He’s friends with some of my distant friends. But I still don't know how to approach him.
The other Problem is I’m moving in about 3 months.
I’m not even going to be in this city. But every summer I’m going to be staying here. I want to become really good friends and may go out with him if I like him enough….
I know I’m thinking far ahead, but what happens if we start too really like each other but then I have to move? I could see him every summer and whenever I come up here.... but still.

I’m just so confused! And the whole moving in 3 months thing is just making this situation even more complicated... PLEASE! HELP! ME!

(PS: I have also posted this is a different category because I wasn’t sure which one to put it
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Hun, I had the exact same problem when I was in middle school, chances are he might like you but to make sure just talk to him and please be nothing but yourself eventually your heart and instincts are going to help you,and tell you what's best now in my opinion I don't think it should go farther then close friends because you are moving...but it's your decision them again not mine.... Hope I helped!! :)




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