Gender: Female Location: Michigan Age: 20 Member Since: March 15, 2010 Answers: 2 Last Update: March 15, 2010 Visitors: 563
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17/F and my boyfriend is the same, except male. We've been. Going out for just over a year. Ok, backstory complete.
First off, if you're here to berate or belittle me, please leave. I'm scared enough as it is. Also, don't tell me I'm too young to be having sex. I'm in very stable and loving relationship in which we always take the proper precautions. Secondly, please don't ask me to go see my doctor. That's not an option for me...
I hope that didn't sound too mean! But, here's what happened: I got my period on the 12th (right on schedule). It was super light, like at the beginning of every one of my periods. It's usually light for the first two days and then on the third day it gets pretty heavy. Alright, so, on the 13th I woke up and my period was kind of gone. I thought this was a bit weird, but I didn't really worry too much about this. My boyfriend came over that same night and we had sex with a condom. I guess somewhere in the middle the condom broke and my boyfriend finished in me. We didn't find out until after. Now, normally I would be really scared. However, I thought I had started my period. I know when you have your period, you can still get pregnant... but it's rare, and I felt ok about it. Well, on the 14th my period didn't come back and today, the 15th, it didn't come back either. I'm extremely confused and very worried. Something's not right. Could I be pregnant? How likely is it that I am? And if I am, do you guys have any advice for telling my parents? Thanks so much in advance! Xoxox (link)
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Well if it's still within 3 days of the "unprotected" sex then go to the pharmacy and see if you can get Plan B. Which is the birth control pill that you can take if your protection fails.
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Wait a couple weeks then go to the dollar store and buy a pregnancy test, go home and take it. (Or do as previous respondant said and go to Planned Parenthood.)
As far advice for telling your parents your pregnant if you are point out to them that you were being responsible and using protection but it failed. Hope it alll works out for you.
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Hey there okay never thought Id find myself asking one of theese questions but yea here goes.
Soo this will probably sound extremely stupid in a way but im kinda worried. Basicly I get my period towards the end of the month start of the next The last time I got my period was Jan 26/27th/28th could of been either of theese dates it finished probably like feb 1st now March 15th and I havnt had a period since im usually really on time,as my period previous to the last was the 26th of december.
Anyway I havnt had sex and im a virgin..so obviously I couldnt be pregnant.However a thought occured to me..in between this time me and my boyfriend have fooled around alot..like everything except sex.
So im kind of like stressing now considering im this late that maybe is it possible that if anything from him came in contact with me when we were messing around without realising?
Seems incrediabley stupid I know but I was wondering is that ANYWAY possible?cos im kinda freakin out now.
I know the more I stress that,that can delay them longer but ive relaxed and completely forgot until now.
why am I so late? should I be at all worried?
Thanks for your time :) (link)
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If any of his fluids came in contact with you 'down there' then yes, it IS possible for you to get pregnant without having sex if there's fluid contact. My periods tend to mess up a bit if I'm under stress so your probably late due to stress but if there's a chance some of his fluids came in contact with you then perhaps you may want to take a pregnancy test or see a doctor.
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