Member Since: August 15, 2004
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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!
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Girl, Im 17, and I have been in this situation many times before, (Fortunately I am also still a virgin, so I can relate to how you feel about the abstinance.) and I have to tell you, you have to say something to him. If you try telling him that you are aware of what hes trying to do and you also need to tell him that you warned him in the beginning and he already knows that you would like to practice celebacy. TELL HIM that if he tries it again, its over, tell him not to take advantage of you because you love him and he knows it. Sometimes guys will try that. So tell him exactly how you feel. Believe me, he will stop or either he will get mad leave you alone, and if thats the option he takes, then youre better off because then you know that he was just after your "Goodies."
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