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Q: there's this boy, whom I like alot- i'm going to call him jake. well today he came over, when my parent's weren't here, we didn't go outside but we were sitting on the bench& we started making out then he was leaving at ten, so I looked at my phone I was like twenty more minutes, then it started to get serious, like we would be kissing& for a few times he did would run his hand up my back& I was like if he tries to go under my bra or near my "private" area, i'm going to stop him, so he goes over my bra, like he was feeling them, just kinda touching? it wasn't bad& it was only for a few minutes. then we were kissing again& he stuck his hands down the back of my pants touching my butt, he would do that, then bring it out& then do that again, then he took his hand& he was playing w/ my "private" part's, like my panties were still in the way but he was playing with them over my panties& at the time I didn't care, I was like he still isn't in them, blah blah blah. & now that I think of it I feel horrible, weren't even dating& I let him do that, I feel so sick, like to my stomach& I feel like a whore, I already took a shower, he's the only guy I have done anything like this with, i've only even made out w/ one guy ever then him,& i'm fourteen, do you think i'm a whore?
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definately not and do you want to know why? not only did you only allow a boy to touch you, not even you, but your underwear, but your questioning whether what you did was right or not and a whore wouldn't do that plain and simple. They wouldn't look back because they would be so used to it. Also, you're 14 and just trying new things and there is nothing wrong with that. I know kids your age who have had sex not once, not twice, but several times. You are perfectly normal and not a whore by anyones defination. Believe me, you have nothing to regret. Just be sure that if you're not comfortable with something to let the guy know for future situations.
Best of luck with guys :)
WiNTEROMANCEx
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Q: Hi.
I'm 14/F.
To start off, I hate my life.
My parents hate me and they say I should die.
I don't enjoy life. I cut myself all the time to take a way the pain. My mom won't take me to see a doctor since she hates me.
School is rough. I'm called names everywhere I walk. I'm made fun of for no reason. I feel hated.
I feel like I don't belong. I feel like if I committed suicide, I would definitely be happier. People would be happier.
I know you probably either want to say "Suicide Isn't the way out!" Or "Your parents really love you!"
They don't my parents don't. They told me they don't.
I feel like I don't belong. I've had so many breakdowns. I sit alone at lunch. I don't have any friends. What should I do? Whats a good way to commit suicide?
Please help.
I need it.
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Suicide is definately NOT the way out, which i know has been said below me, but it's very, very true. I believe that you should talk to someone that you can trust such as an adult or school counselor and if you can't do that then please feel free to contact me. just send me a message and my AIM sn is all yours and I would gladly talk to you about it. Believe me, i know someone who used to cut and it definately didn't help them. it made them a lot worse because once they got better they still had to stare at the scars and they still do. I know people can be completely and totally rude, but what you should do is just try and act more out going around people and be yourself. Show them that you aren't just some person that they can treat like dirt. I know that, that is really hard to do, but if you try it, I'm sure you'll see that it'll work. Also, if you act confident even if you aren't at school then people will want to be friends with you. Try not to think about what other people think of you. Try hard in school and get good grades and in a few years you'll be out on your own. and if none of that works do this: PROVE YOUR PARENTS AND EVERYONE ELSE WRONG! Work really hard at everything you do and become an amazing person. Look at yourself in the mirror and think about your strong points. It'll really help. Everyone has insecurities even the popular kids, so just try and remember those things.
WiNTEROMANCEx
Ps. im 14/f 2 =]
and dont forget to message me for my AIM SN. I'd really like to be your friend. You seem like an amazing person.
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