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Q: ugh omg i am extremely freaking out. My mom has been stressed out enough and her boyfriend has been proud of me lately but now im pregnant and don't know if i should make my mom more stressed out or what. the only thing that i am worried about after telling my mom is that she is going to go tell her boyfriend and i don't want him to know anything about it and if i tell my mom she is going to think that everytime i go see the oppsite sex that she is going to not be able to trust me even though being in this position i am scared enough and i never want to be in this position again.

please help A.S.A.P.

you didn't include your age or whether your keeping the baby but..you need to tell her as soon as possible i know this situation is totally scary
what i would do is go to your school sycologist or guidance counselor talk to him/her about it and then you can have a meeting so your telling her in a environment where she cant FREAK OUT so much you know? then the 3 (or 4 with boyfriend) of you can think of some ways that this could work ;; tell your mom your REALLY SORRY you made this mistake she probably wont trust you again but if you have the baby you wont have time to hangout with guys and stuff like that but it you get an abortion your pretty much screwed (i don't know your mom or anything but with my mom i would be) your mom and boyfriend will be let down but there's nothing you can really do about it but apologize and.. cry ;; they'll probably feel bad and take it easy on you =/

if you wanna talk about whats going on or anything i can send you my sn if you want it

hope i helped

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