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Hey there! No need to let you know my entire life story, but I'm a psych buff with a good ear. I won't pretend to have absolute intel on everything, because I'm not a narcissist ;) But I can tell you I have a lot of knowledge and insight into mental health, relationships, sex, bisexuality, pets, and am good at listening to any problem and giving the best insight I'm capable of.
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I am trying to find some fun sex toys I can use by myself or with my boyfriend. I know a little bit about cock rings and butt plugs, but I dont know a lot about any of it. Does anybody have any suggestions on things I should look into?
All you need to do is go to a good sex shop.
Not sure wherabouts you live, as you didnt specify, but theres always some in the area (you can google it) and personally I always liked Babeland and Lovers Package. Go there, ask questions. The staff are trained to know what they're talking about. They've probably tried half of it cause they get a discount ;)
Aside from yes, obviously cock rings and butt plugs and all that good stuff, theres toys to stimulate prostate, theres the "wevibe" which is great for the guy and the girl, and theres always a strap on...(jk) ;) Good luck.
Hey. Today my boyfriend and I tried to have sex but we couldn't find a position were it was easiest for him to stay in. what it the best position for us both to be comfortable and for him to stay in? Any advice would be much appreciated. Oh we are both 17 and haven't had much sexual experience. Thanks :)
Theres no "best" position for people in general. It really does depend on you as a couple. Because you havent had much sexual experience, you might not be used to trying all the different positions to find the best way. But it takes a while for a couple to find what works best for them sexually. If its a problem in terms of him literally staying in, I would recommend one leg wrapped around his back and one on top of his shoulder. It makes for deeper penetration, and therefore its pretty easy to stay in. But it really is specific to you as a couple. Try lots of different positions. Don't be afraid to laugh about it. Have fun!
Just wondering does anyone get grossed out by the term "tea-bagging"? and who doesn;t like to do it?
Just wondering is all I read that some people like it and its a turn-on but haven't really read anywhere if people get grossed out or doesn't like to do it to there partners.
It's just like any other sexual act - it might appeal to you, it might not. You might try it and find that it's less gross than it sounds. There are plenty of people, especially growing up who find/found the idea of oral sex abhorrent, who now actually like pleasing their partner in that capacity.
If you were to try it, and didn't like it, I would find another way to please your partner.
And yes, the term is not exactly an attractive one. It would pretty much put anyone off the concept. But, to be frank, if you don't have an issue with oral sex, you probably wouldnt have an issue with this.