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well iive alwaysz enj0yed qiving people adviice..ii used to post on aol messaqe boardsz but ii figured it sound much more "pr0fessional" if ii had my own advice column lol so leave ur message and i will try to give u qood advice!! x0x-meqan
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okay, well this is my story:: *
my best friend, who i've been best friends with since 1st grade(in 8th now) she liked this guy when we were in 6th grade. on the last day of 6th grade, he asked her out. but like the whole summer they were messed up, like she would just miss him cause he couldnt see her or they would fight or like she'd get jealous about something, but she was in love, so i just let her vent to me. but they broke up in november of 7th grade, now its the beginning of 8th grade nd shes still not over him. i mean, she loves him so much still, nd he has a girlfriend now nd he's moved on, but he still told her he loved her nd stuff, cause they are like best friends but i mean my best friend just gets so upset about everything cause sometimes he does treat her like crap. but, well, she started cutting herself shortly after the break-up nd i was okay with it, cause i was too. but now, she's just.. suicidal. nd it scares me. nd she says she's lost herself, that the guy knew who better than she knows herself, nd that she doesnt wanna live anymore. nd i am trying to be there for her, but we fight so much because of everything, nd i know i shouldnt be fighting with her, but she scares me so much. nd she totally lost herself over this guy, nd he was her first love nd all, but still. i mean, i dk what to do to help her. so can you please please please help me?! i feel like such a terrible best friend!
~thanx a bunch
xO Christina
its not ur fault of ur friends actions. its not the guys fault either. u need to tell ur best friend that it just wasnt meant to be and she shouldnt be getting herself so worked up over it i mean hes just a boy and shell find others cuz remember theres plenty of fish in the sea ;-)