I am a very outgoing, opptomistic, energetic, caring, patient individual. I seem to have a knack for helping others with their relationship issues. I am always very honest with my advise and tend to tell it like it is. Although some things are hard to hear at first, in the end it seems that honesty and frowardness are really what people look for and need to hear. I don't claim to know all and I have certainly made my share of mistakes and bad decisions but I have tried to learn and grow from every one of them.
E-mail: liddybeesands@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Whittier, CA
Occupation: homemaker and mother
Age: 30
Member Since: May 13, 2009
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Is it normal to not enjoy sex at all? I am getting married but I do not really enjoy the sex. He uses condoms so could that possibly be why?! I enjoy oral but I am concered about the sex part.. is it normal? do condoms add less feeling?
Please help ease my mind (link)
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No, it isn't normal. Sex should be a pleasurable and enjoyable thing. It could be the condom but it could also be a lack of communication with your' partner. Durring sex you need to talk to him and let him know what you want. It would also be a good idea to spend some time with your' body finding out your' hot spots. Getting to know where and how you like to be touched your' self can help you better guide your' partner when you when you are together.
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i want to have sex and i'm not old enough.... why do i want to... whats wrong with me?? (link)
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Nothing is wrong with you it's just your' hormones going crazy. That is a natural part of puberty and yeah,,, it pretty much sucks. I would suggest masturbation. There is nothing to be ashamed of and it will curb your' desire and take your' mind off of it.
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why do guys like to give anal sex. I know that most girls don't like it but most guys insist on it. I dont understand why though, just the thought of it to me is gross for both parties...so if any guys could answer this question for me...thanks then (link)
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I'm not a guy but I wanted to weigh in on the subject anyway. When I first met my husband he told me he was very into anal play and I didn't understand it either. I was just like you and thought that it was gross and didn't think that there was any way anyone could take any pleasure from stimulating that region. I have come to learn that anal play can actually be very pleasurable when done under the right circumstances. I think that most men like it because it's an issue of dominance but again, under the right circumstances, with the right person it can be a whole different story. I feel that it comes down to trust, cleanliness, and comfertability. And then of course there is the fact that it just may not be for you. To each his own.
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