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Q: okay so im 17/f and sometimes i just get reallllly horny and obvouisly masterbate. this i kind of a weird subject but anyways one night i got super horny and instead of just rubbing my clit or using my fingers i used a brush to stick up me. after i did it i started thinking that maybe that was a bad idea?! if it was dirty or somehing could i get infected or something??! sorry if this was gross

No ,
its not dirty , i know lots of females that use the most weirdest things to use for masturbation .

that doesn't make you dirty at all .
you're just experimenting .

xoxo

Q: my boyfriend doesn make much noise during sex im wondering if he enjoys it. its not complete silence but deep breathing panting rarely moans is that a problem.

Everybody is different .
some people are really loud , some people moan from time to time , and other just breathe alot and really fast .

Just because he isnt' loud doesnt mean they don't like it .

lol some guys actually think its fruity to moan . ha' .

but idk you can notice if you givin it to em good , by their face expression .

xoxo .

Q: 18/f
still a virgin
so my boy wants me to give him head. i've never really done anything like this before, and when i'm on my period i want to be able to do something for him you know? well the thing is i am nervous, obviously. i don't want to embarass myself by being horrible at it. he has only been with one other girl, and i know she did everything with him which worries me because what if i'm not as good as she was? some questions i have are:

1. is it really as awkward and disgusting as it may seem? i think the penis is actually pretty gross, but i am very attracted to my boy, he turns me on like no other.
2. i don't want to swallow, i actually don't really want that in my mouth at all, but i also don't want it getting all over the place
3. is there anything i should for sure do or NOT do?
4. i heard from somewhere that you use a condom when you give someone head, but that doesn't seem right?

well i know sometimes you can't really go into depth on here, so if you can't answer any of these questions i would appreciate if you could e-mail me or something (i'll give you my e-mail in feedback) if it's not too much trouble. thank you very much and happy thanksgiving :)

lizLOVE is right .
If you really love him , then it shouldn't be weird & awkward . If its something that you don't want to do tho , then if he really cares he will understand .

Its not the best in the world i hear , but its just to please him you know? If you don't want to swallow , then spit it in a cup or have a towel . & using a condom is just not right , lol . i think that takes away from the concept . but if you want to do that just so you can get used to it , then do so .

xoxo .