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ohh ok and so wen a girl has an orgasm, THATS wen she cums? (link)
yes, 'cumming' is just another way of saying 'has an orgasm'


ok..sorry i keep asking questions
so what is the big difference between getting wet and cumming, and when does a female cum? (link)
When a woman is stimulated or aroused, for example during foreplay, a little 'wetness' will be present around the opening of the vagina. The ammount varies from woman to woman. Being wet is literally that, a wetness of the vaginal opening.

An orgasm is when a wave of pleasure rushes over a woman either from penetration by a sexual toy, finger or penis, or by stimulation (rubbing, sucking, licking etc) of the clitoris.

And don't worry about keep asking things, it's what I'm here for.

Hope that helps x


if i have chlamydia does that mean he cum up me (link)
Chlamydia is an STI caused by a bacteria called Chlamydia trachomatis. It is the most common STI (in the UK at least, where I am).

It often has no symptoms especially for men. You can get Chlamydia from having unprotected sex with someone who already has it. Whether or not that person cums has nothing to do with it. If your genitals were in contact, you could have got it.

1. Always use a condom even if you use other forms of contraception. Not using them can lead to much more serious STIs and STDs in the future not to mention pregnancy.

2. If you think you have any kind of STI or STD, go to your GP or doctor, or a sexual health clinic. Don't be embarassed, they have seen it all before and if you leave it untreated it can cause long-term problems including infertility (not being able to have children).

3. There is a lot of information out there about sexual health, I'm here to answer questions the best I can but remember, google is your friend.

Hope I helped x


thank you for your answer
everytime a female "cums" or "gets wet" is that considered an orgasm? (link)
'Cumming' is another way of saying orgasm, however getting wet is different.

You get wet at the start of sex so that it doesnt hurt when the penis is inserted. If the woman isnt wet, it would hurt a lot which is why you use foreplay before sex to create that wetness.

Getting wet is only for this reason, its unrelated to orgasms.

Hope this helps x


what are the characteristics and the exact definiton of an orgasm for a female? lyk wat happens and wen does it happen and how does it feel? (link)
Orgasms feel different for everyone, depending on who you are with, what they (or you) are doing, how sensitive you are and other factors.

Some women go thier whole lives without orgasming while others find it very easy to orgasm.

Climaxing with a partner during penetrative (Vaginal) sex is actually more difficult than TV, films and many books would have you believe and it requires techniques that often need to be learned.

The characteristics of an orgasm for a woman are generally a tightening of the muscles which will feel just like tensing your whole body and a sensation of pleasure (often described as a 'wave of pleasure').

Some women feel an orgasm in the general pubic and vaginal areas where-as others describe it more as a feeling that goes through thier whole body.

I hope this helps x




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