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why is virginity and breaking virginity such a big deal? like oh, you had sex for your first time. whats so big about taht? all it is is having sex except the first time. im serious can someone tell me why this is so big?

Because having sex isn't just some activity. Well, it has turned into that now. Its supposed to be a sign of something, that you love and care for that person. I realize now everyone thinks they should just do it to do it, but it is supposed to be something special. It IS a big deal. Its a very big deal.

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okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!!

sounds like he's just down. You can't do anything about how other people act. They choose to act and feel the way they do for the most part. Its just a phase, a cry for attention. If something gets serious, then talk to him and someone else, but other than that, I think it'll be okay. If your worried though, you might want to talk to him about it. Be honest. Good Luck.

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