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im 14 and my penis is about 4 inches long is that normal? will it grow?

If 4 inches is your erect size:
It is absolutely normal for one's penis to be long or short. I have friends (13-20) ranging from 4.5 inches to 7 inches. There is no 'abnormal' when it comes to penis size/length becuase everyone is different.

If 4 inches is your non-erect size:
4 inches is slightly large for a non-erect penis, not many guys I know have non-erect penises over the length of 2-3 inches. Still, there is no normal or abnormal size for a penis.

Will it grow (Erection-wise):
All penises grow when a guy is aroused sexually, like reading/listening to/watching erotic material. Or thinking of sexual intercourse. Blood rushes to your penis and it 'grows'. Erection in other words.

Will it grow (General size):
My cousin 'helps' his non=erect penis size grow longer by masturbating more, and being more 'sexually active'. I heard that his penis grew 1/2 inch in a week just because he masturbated more.

Again, there is no normal or abnormal size for a penis and yes it can grow (only if you 'let' it).

Hope this helped =)

-Kkytha 14/f

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hi im 13
i dont know how to say this but i want to know if my penis is a normal size for my age.
it is about 8cm
and 12 cm wen i have a "stiffy"
i know its a weird question but i want to know

My cousin is 19, and his penis is 12cm when he has a 'stiffy'. However, a two of my ex's are 13, and they're stiffies range from 14cm to 16cm. So you see it ranges a lot between guys, and I guess there isn't a 'normal' size.

Hope it helped =]
Kkytha - 14/f

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hi im 13
about a year ago i started getting pubes and i was wondering if it is normal for me at this age to be getting them.they are about 3cm long and is that just prematuring or is it a natural length? now there are a heap of pubes all around my penis-area and i am sort of worried

Although I'm a girl, I hope the girl's point of view can help.

I'm 14. I got my pubes at, what, 11/12. So at your ages, getting pubes is phenomenal. Girls tend to get them at about 11, and by 13, they are about 2-3cm long.

My friend is 13, and he has heaps of pubes around his penis-area. So I guess it's rather normal for guys too. Consider asking your guy friends, and see what they say about it.

Hope it helped =]
Kkytha - 14/f

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I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?

This may seem plain but this is what I would do:
Pray... God will tell you what to do
=)

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