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Hey there. I started dating my best friend a while ago, you just moved here from Toronto, and he doesn't tell me a whole lot about his life back then. Anyways, we started having sex a couple of monthes ago. I'm on birth control so we don't use condoms, because we both hate them. Anyways, in october i got two infections, and was really sick for a week. I couldn't get out of bed, and i was in pain. I had an yeast infection and urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, she gave me a lot of medicine. whatever, i got better, continued on with our way of things. Anyways, now in december, i seem to have another infection. I'm thinking it might be yeast infection but i don't know. It's different. He says he hasn't had sex before me, but with all these infection that i get, could he have, or could it be my birth control? (link)
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You got really really lucky if the first week you were on the pill you had sex. Birth control pills can take a month to come to full effectiveness.
If your boyfriend won't tell you about his past, he's probably lying. Get some condoms (grow the FUCK up and use them even if you hate them) use them EVERY TIME and keep yourself from getting pregnant or dead.
Also, read the info with your birth control carefully. See that where it says "effectivness". Yeah, doesn't say 100% does it? Listen carefully, I'll say it slowly because you're obviously not getting it: YOU CAN GET PREGNANT EVEN WHEN ON BIRTH CONTROL.
Don't be a moron.
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Ok, so I decided that instead of taking the chance having sex with just a condom that I want to go on birth control. Only problem is telling my mom I want to go to the gyno. I know I don't have to tell my parents but I would rather them knowing know then later on. I'm 18 and at college. Any good ways of saying it to them without basically saying I'm having sex? (link)
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Stop being afraid of your mom. If they are paying, just tell her you think it's time you get annual checkups. If you get BC, pay for it yourself if you don't want your mom to know.
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