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'Sup everybody, I'm Blade. I'm 5'9"ish, i have brown,gold, green eyes, brown hair. Love playin sports,(there aren't many that i haven't played) any of them and every one out there. i play soccer, swimming, and martial arts. I live in California in the bay area. And most of all I love helping people, so if you have a problem or question on ANY subject then ask and ill be more than happy to answer and help you out, if i cant answer your question or help you i'll find you someone who will.
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Age: 17
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Every time me and my boyfriend have sex, he starts to cry. Not just a normal cry, he's hysterical. I try to calm him down by rubbing his back, but all he says is, "sex is such a beautiful thing, how could you NOT cry?" and he gets mad at me sometimes because he thinks i don't care. it makes me feel very awkward. what should i do? (link)
Shove a sock in his mouth, the one that he'd been wearing all day. naww im just playing ( you could try that if nothing else works). Try talking to him about it and tell him the awkward position hes putting you in and explain to him when he cries hysterically it really kills the mood. make sure you emphasize that you do care and your not being inconsiderate. if this doesnt work try the "if a tear is shed, there will be no play in bed" approach, if that fails try the sock tactic i mentioned above. other than that i dont know what else to tell you, soo....good luck with that.


-Blade-


ok last night me and my friend was up stairs in my room wachin a movie and then we start to make out and i want us to do more than make out but he is too shy how can i make him make me happy (link)
You cant force him into anything he doest want to do, and if somehow you did your "fun" wouldnt be as good. Talk to him about it first and just take things slow, if you do that theyll speed up pretty fast and everyone will be happy. But YOU definately need to make the first move and leave behind obvous hints to him when you guys arent like alone in the bedroom but around other ppl, his guy freinds will give him the lil' push he needs.

-Blade-


suppose a girl really wanted to turn a guy on, any way possible, what would you recommend? (link)
first of all dress to impress,everything from how you do your hair to what underwear your wearing.come on to the guy and flirt with him alot and make sexual comments and such or if you want to step it up a notch tell him how you want him and wut you want to do to/with him. also get touchy feely with him in any way possible (not abnoxiously though)basically be all over him for example stratling him or groping him/feeling him up, make him feel in control.tease him a little bit, like make him know he can have you but when he goes to "take" you move just a little bit out of his reach (metaphorically speaking. then the next time he tries let him take you.
(ill add more later)
blade


Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

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its possible that hes interested but to me hes looking for more of a hook up. thats my oppinion from the little information that you gave. if you write me with more info on your situation i can give you better feed back

Blade




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