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hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend? (link)
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I think you deffinitly need to inform your friend that she just can't make excuses for making you her "easy-way-out" of things...But you need to know how..and you need to know when. Try joking to her about while she's not on her period...something about how annoying it is when she does what she does. Then slowly drift into a serious conversation about it...just not TOO serious. Tell her it gets really annoying, but don't make her feel like she needs to APPRECiATE it, because then she might think you're not a good friend. Just tell her she needs to cut down on the excuses..if she needs something, maybe she should just ask you nicely...and maybe you need to start understanding just a LiTTLE bit more..trust me..she wud deff appreciate it (coming fr0m someone who kn0ws how she feels)...iM me and maybe i could help you a little more. =]
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I had a friend off and on for a few years, one year she was my best friend, the next year we hated each other. Earlier in the year we had gotten close. Then she started doing stuff to hurt me, like breaking into my e-mail and reading personal stuff. She made multiple screen names where she IMed me saying she was a high school guy. Other times she made fun of my friends or my animals or my life in general. Finally one day in about March I told her online that I didnt want her to hurt me anymore, and that she had used up all her chances. The bad part of it all is, our parents are pretty good friends. My mom knows about everything that happened. The bad thing is, whenever our parents talk her mom asks why I am never around anymore or she invites me to come over, so I dont think she knows about what happened, 5 MONTHS LATER. What should I do next time her mom asks me somethin?
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Hey...I know how you feel
I had the same thing happen to me...twice. The best thing to do..is to sit her mom down, in private..and just kinda let her know what happened. Don't get into detail that would get embaressing for your friend, but just let her know things didn't work out, and that you just grew apart...and honestly..dont worry too much about it..her Mom probobly won't kill herself over it. I hope i helped...=]
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