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Hello. My best friend has been with this guy for a year and a half. They got their own apartment together in the beginning of September. I am not crazy about her being with him because he is lazy and overweight, and anti-social. My problem is that I am afraid my friend is going to turn this way too now. She used to be so much fun. They always have their shades drawn and they never want anyone over they say they are sleeping. I am afraid I am going to lose my best friend to a boring life of nothingness. I know it's getting to be winter/hybernation time, and they just moved in together not too long ago, but I also know what type of person this boy is and he is just going to influence her to shut out the world like he always has. I think she thought he was a different person when they first went out and she may be too attached to ever get out of it now. She gets obsessively attached to things and I'm afraid she is going to miss out on life for a while and I'm going to miss her, because "my friend is sleeping." Thank you to whomever answers. (link)
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Hey! Call her up, go visit her at her house, invite her over, or w/e! Just get her to a place where ya'll can just sit down and talk. Tell her how you're feeling and what you're concerned about and give her time to also share her side of the story. That way she'll have a better understanding of what you're going through and vise versa. Maybe then think of special days where ya'll can just hang out (going to the mall, movies, out to eat, etc.) by yourselves and then I think your relationship with her will grow and things will get back to normal. I hope I helped! Good luck with this! Luv ya bunches! God bless ya!
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