Hi people.
I'm Amanda. I'm 15 years old. I used to be X_Amanda_X but I decided to start over. :]
Music is pretty much my life. I can hardly go an hour without listening to some kind of music.
Yeah. Inboxes are nice =) Just ask and I'll answer.
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Note: I'm brutally honest, so if your question makes it sound like you're a slut, I'll tell you you're a slut =)
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Gender: Female
AIM: amandax autistic
Member Since: July 10, 2006
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Muh bestest friend and me are having lots of fights latley cause her boyfriend is having sex with her, and doing crack and stuff. he's like 14, shes only 12. i'm 13 though. i dont like her being around him but she always sticks up for him, this has been happening lots for almost four monthz, how can i get hur back i miss hur! (link)
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The thing you really should do is tell your friends parents. Sure, your friend will get mad for you telling her parents, but it's for her own good. Because I have a feeling just talking to her about her is going to get you no where.
Good luck. =)
xMakeDamnSurex
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I have a lot of friends. But I have fights with a lot of them a lot. They don't have a lot of fights with their other friends. I know how to be a friend but still... I am not acting like a good friend and I really need help on that. Also how can I make people like me so I can make more friends? The other thing is how can I determine who is really my true friend and who is not? Please help! (link)
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First off, Quality is better than quantity.
Second, don't start fights. Its that simple. And to get a true friend, you have to be a true friend.
That's my advice in fortune cookie form.
xMakeDamnSurex
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Why Do I Love You So Much? (link)
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Hah.
I dunno.
You tell me.
I love you too. ;)
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so about two months ago i found out that my best friend basically was talking about me behind my back, so i told her off and we both got really pissed and just stopped talking. last week she apologized and it seemed like she meant it so i told her it was ok. so the other day she was at my house and she was on advicenators.com, and i guess she forgot to log out because today i came onto this site and clicked on "your questions" and saw that they werent mine so i was confused and i clicked on one. in it she basically bashed our whole group of six friends, she said only herself and my two other friends were pretty and she said one of them was only pretty "sometimes". then she continued to talk about another friend (who even though she used a different name, i could tell was me because she talked about the same stuff that she was using to talk about me behind my back) and how she thought that i COULD be pretty but im ugly right now and how can she help me. but she made it sound like im some person who doesnt know how to take care of myself, like i have no idea how to use a razor and i never wash my face so its all greasy, which is NOT true. i started shaving even before she did! and im not sure how i should react cause in one way its flattering that she cares about me enough to want to help me with my "problems", but in another way im insulted because she said that "no guys pay attention to her" which isnt true, a bunch of guys have specifically said that they thought im hot. and she said that i always wear the same clothes and that even when its really hot out ill wear jeans and a sweatshirt, but its really mean of her to assume that because she doesnt understand that im really self conscious cause shes like the skinniest person alive shes a size 00 and im a size 5, and she doesnt know that so she talks about how her friend who is a size 3 is fat to me. and when i first the question she wrote i was so mad at her, she was making all these rude accusations when she doesnt even know the truth. it makes me not wanna be friends with her anymore knowing that she thinks of me as like a little girl who doesnt know how to take care of herself and needs "help". but i cant confront her about it cause then she'll know i was snooping on her account, even though it was an accident. what do u think i should do to prove her wrong about all that? sorry this was so long. thanks!!! (link)
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Hm. Interesting.
Well, you should really talk to your friend about it. Yes, she'll most likely be angry that you were snooping in her account, but she is at fault for staying logged in. And I think you had a right to wonder. And you definately have the right to know. If she were your real friend, she would've stopped talking about you behind your back when you guys "became friends again"
As for what you added about being concieted, she probably puts everyone around her down just to bring her self-esteem up. This kind of person soudns like someone I wouldn't want to be friends with.I dunno about you though.
You basically have to choose between two things here.
a) Don't tell her and let her keep betraying your friendship
b) Talk to her about it and take the chance of losing a friend, who sounds like they weren't a friend in the first place.
I hope this helped and good luck =)
Feel free to send another inbox if you need further help.
xMakeDamnSurex
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