"Maybe we're not supposed to be happy. Maybe gratitude has nothing to do with joy. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it is. Appreciating small victories. Admiring the struggle it takes to simply be human. Maybe, we're thankful for the familiar things we know. And maybe we're thankful for the things we'll never know. At the end of the day, the fact that we have the courage to still be standing is reason enough to celebrate."
Website: It's Like That
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Look I`m totaly losing my best friend to this new kid dominique I dont like dominique because of this and I only wish that she would leave us alone. Kayla has been my BFF for 8 years and now that this person has came we`re not even talking anymore what do I do to get her back as a friend (link)
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Ok, have you ever seen the episode of Full House, where Michelle is best friends with this girl and then her old best friend Teddy comes back? Well, she didn't know that you could have two best friends and she thought she had to choose. Well, the truth is, it's possible to have more than one best friend. You need to talk to Kayla and Dominique and let them know how you're feeling. There's no reason why the three of you can't hang out and all be friends. Just hang in there and good luck.
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Yesterday I started school for the new school year and I was really excited about seeing my friends because I had been in Colorado all summer. I came back and in the early morning, none of them even bothered to say "hello". I don't know if they didn't see me or if they were simply snubbing me. I was miffed at first, but quickly shrugged it off. I renewed most friendships to almost what they were by lunch, but when I came to sit in my seat, there was another girl whom I just happen to extremely dislike, seated there. The tables in our lunchroom are allowed only 8 chairs per table and so I sat with 3 or 4 other girls I knew sitting at the opposite table. I was quite upset but I assumed that she would just sit there for the day. Today I came back and found her there again. Everything was normal because I pulled over a chair, but moved back to the other table by myself when a teacher scolded me. I am very, very upset about the fact that this girl seems to have taken my place with my friends, even though I KNOW that only one girl at my former table actually likes her. I thought of sitting with other friends but all of the other tables with them are filled. Should I accept the fact that this girl has taken my place, or should I try to take back my former importance in the group? By the way, I can't get to the table first because she has a classroom about 2 times closer than mine. (link)
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You need to confront your friends. Just ask them straight up what's going on. I don't understand why they would sit with this girl if they don't like her and if they do like you, than you should be sitting there, not her. Yeah, the best advice I can give you is to just ask them calmly what's going on. Hope everything works out for you!
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