hi my name is emily
i like to dance,cheer, shop,draw, and give ppl advice and alot of other things! i love fashion, animals and to hangout with my friends
Gender: Female Age: 13 Member Since: May 19, 2007 Answers: 17 Last Update: June 12, 2007 Visitors: 2268
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I need some little things to do to show I care, for my best guy friend. I'm 26/f. Thanks! (link)
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well you can make a scrap book of all the good times you had together, or make a poem about how you will always be ther for him and how much you care about him. hope i helped =]
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In December I was best friends with this guy. We're both 16, I'm a girl. Well we were really good friends, hung out everyday even if for 5 minutes, and called eachother everyday etc. He told me in January he liked me but decided he just wanted to be friends. Then he stopped talking to me. I was confused and hurt, after being with him everyday and talking to him, not talking/seeing to him at all was a total shock. Eventually I talked to him about it, and he said he still wanted to be friends/have a friendship. To me, it didn't seem like he was trying, and it still doesn't right now. I tell him exactly, directly, up front what I expect of him, which isn't much, and he never follows through. He calls maybe once every week, and only to ask if he's missed the bus. We hang out once a week, sometimes not at all. I guess I just really miss our old friendship and we've talked about it numerous times, I promise. And it seems while we're talking that he gets it, and the next day usually everything's so much better. But then he starts with his old habits again, and I don't know what to do! I guess I'm just asking did he give up trying to be my friend because he doesn't like me anymore? That's what it seems like to me, but I really need some thoughts here. It's been awhile since January, and I'm still confused why he seems to not be making an effort at this friendship. I'm really hurt, and just need help please.
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Maybe he just needs some time away from you. trying to get over his feelings for you. Then when he is ready he will act like himself again. He is probably worried if he spends time with you when his feelings arent fully gone he will start to like you all over again. Just give him some more time and a little space. then if it doesnt get better soon tell him how precious your friendship is and how you dont want to lose it.
hope i helped=]
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