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Everyone's always telling me how smart, mature, and "wise-beyond-my-years" I am. So I thought, forget xanga!, I'm unoriginal anyway, why not help out my friends with questions? Or anyone for that matter. So please, go ahead and ask anything(It's totally anonymous if you want): I'll give you my straightforward opinion. And I promise, absolutely no "Do what you feel is best" crap.

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yeah my friends is having smart problems. how do i tell her she needs help and shes not so smart in a nice way..

First of all, what are 'smart problems'? As if being smart means that there's something wrong with you? And while you're at it, take a look at your grammar then ask me again who's not the brightest crayon in the box.
I don't understand, why would you even want to tell someone that? There's no need to make them feel worse about themselves then they probably already do. So how about, instead of deflating them, you offer alternatives or plans in which they can get the support they need.

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