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Here is my problem I have known this guy for eleven years and I have liked him more then a friend but I haven't talked to him in five years. I heard from his sistr that he joined the army in 02 and I have been trying to get a hold of him because he is in Iraq. But I don't know what should I tell him when I write him a letter because I am afraid if I tell him that I like him more then a friend that he won't want to be anything more then a friend so what should I do. Please help me. (link)
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If it was me i would send him a letter asking what he has been up to in a friend matter then once yall start talking again as friends then tell him that you have like him and wanted to be more than just a friend to him, however you was afraid that you telling him that before maybe would've intefered with yalls friendship. I wish you the best of luck
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one of my friends thinks i'm getting really annoying. b/c she THINKS all i talk about is boys, boyfriends, periods. but i dont. and idk what to do. i need help b/c i dont only talk about that...maybe its b/c she doestn know me that well...?
Help!
CraZy fOr helP (link)
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If it was me i would really hate to do this but i would tell her that she needs to keep her mouth shut cause of the simple fact she doesnt know what all you do talk about. i hate to make it sound mean but its better to be bold and speak the truth then but pushed around if that makes since. i use to be one who wouldnt speak my mind cause i was a coward but now that i do speak my mind i feel alot better about things.
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My best friend is becoming one of those 'I dont care' people. She says that she doesn't care about school, her friends, her family, her life, her anything. And. I dont know what the hell to say to that kind of attitude. She can be obnoxious and she's very rude sometimes. We've been best friends for four years now. Two years ago her parents got divorced; one of the nastiest things ever. She's been off her rocker since, doing drugs and getting drunk - but occasionally, not obsessivley. She has no respect for her family. And I dont know what I'm supposed to do at all, should I even care? She certainly doesn't give a crap about anything.
I tried to help, a lot, but all she says is that its going through one ear and out the other and that it doesn't matter what I say because she knows she can change but she wont. I know most people have been through rough times and know that the ability to change is in their ability, but thats not a way to live. She doesn't even see the point of life - which goes back to religion, and if you're going to make some ignorant comment about that then I'm telling you now that I dont give a shit about your opinion about that because I'm not here to discuss whether this has to do with religion or not.
Also, please spare me if you're gonna say 'talk 2 her. hope i helped lol. rate me 5z plz.' I'll give you a one. >.>. Thanks. And just for generalness, we're both fifteen. (link)
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If it was me and i tried and done what i could but didnt see no signs of changing or caring i would just let her be. Let her figure out that she is the one doing wrong not you. Cause a person can only try so hard then thats it the rest depends on the other person if that makes since.
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This may be long, so brace yourself lol.
Ok, so I like my ex boyfriend and i have "I love you" in my profile.My other ex kept on wanting to know who it was and I didn't wanna tell him because he'd get extremely mad. So then after awhile he started calling me a bi*ch, as*hole, and prick n stuff.He said that I think I'm too good for everyone and that's why I won't tell him. He thinks it because I only told my cousin (my best friend) that I liked my ex so that made him think that I thought I was too good for everyone. He was a really good friend of mine, and since I won't tell him who I like because I wanna keep it to myself and my cousin,he doesn't want to be friends anymore. Was he being wrong or was I? please help! What should I say to him? (link)
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If it was me i would tell him if i wanted you to know then i would tell you but i dont so shut up. Tell him not only that but the way he is acting toward you and calling you names that he really dont deserve to know. To me it sounds like he is trying to boss you around and that is wrong.
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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching? (link)
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I had a similiar situation and what i did was confronted my friend and told him exactly what i thought. Tell her if she cant quite bitching and get herself together that you dont wont nothing to do with her. I know its not exactly nice but the truth is really what matters.
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