There's a girl, I'll call her Sara, is really slutty and all she can talk about is how much she likes emo bands and how she flashes her breasts to guys. This is mostly the reason I don't like her, and the other part is that she's kind of punk and I have a clean, preppy style. Well, anyway, she is really nice to me, and I always help her around and stuff because of that. It's really hard, because she's always so nice to me, but I really don't like the way she behaves or talks. I know she tries to fit in, but I feel guilty about not really liking her and venting about how annoying she is to my friends when she acts so nice. Any advice?
If she's nice what does it matter what she likes or what she wears? How she lives her life is her business but if you are her friend, maybe telling her that some of the things she does aren't the wisest thing for her safety wouldn't be such a bad idea. And if you feel guilty about venting about how annoying she is? Save yourself and her some agony and just stop hanging around her. No one wants to be friends with someone who talks behind their back and it doesn't seem like u are concerned about her, more like... you don't like her and she's nice so it's hard for you to know what to do. Personally I think trying to fit in is a waste of time and people should just be themselves. If that's herself that's too bad. She'll probably grow out of it, we all do crazy things and have bad phases in our life - but there's always room for change. If you don't like her - just don't engage yourself. You can't let what she does affect you so. You both will be fine without the other most likely. (Sorry if I was rather blunt.) Good luck!
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