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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help? (link)
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awww i know what this feels like...i always thought no one else in the world experienced this but me but i guess i was wrong..i've started to get over it and make friends and what you have to do is learn to love yourself first...find out what good qualities you have...i'm sure at least one person likes you...find them and spend more and more time with them...you'll feel better knowing you at least have one friend...and then try to gain you confidence with them and meet new people and remember not everyone will like you...you just have to tell yourself oh well...its their lost...i hoped i helped and you ask me for anything else just leave something in my inbox..
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okay. well i'm 14 years old and my best friend is a guy. and i do have a boyfriend whom i really love. but my best friend recently has been flirting with me and crap. but i only think of him as a friend and my boyfriend is starting to think i'm cheating on him. i want to tell my friend about what he's doing but i still want to keep him as a best friend...what should i do? how can i tell him to lay off? (link)
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well if he really is your best friend be honest with him..he should listen to you...he might not realize what he's doing...or he could secretly like you...and as for you boyfriend tell him not nothing is going on between you and ur friend and if he still don't believe then obviously he doesn't trust you enough..
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Alright, At the beginning of the school year.. I met this sweet guy, he was always there for me through a lot. I really liked him, but I knew, he liked me more. His name, let's say is Chris, what I didn't know is that he's a sweet talker to all the ladies, hes extremely rich...EXTREMELY.. Wow if anyone knows me, this gives it away. Anyways, one of my friends asked me to homecoming, for NEXT year, my friend, lets say.. Jake. I've known him for two years but he lives an hour and a half away. I said yes, because me and him are good friends and I trust him. CHris got mad and tried to get me back, I don't know if this was to get me back but he is now going out with noe of my friends, and she likes him too. Theyve been together awhile now. The girls name, is Heather. Heather did the same thing to one of my friends, Steve. So me and Steve got screwed over, but me and steve knew eachother before I met Chris. I think i'm starting to like steve a little.. he's really sweet, and he's sooo much like me, we have a lot in common and i can trust him a lot. But me and Steves relationship is like best friend thing. We're really close and we just met early this year. Heather and Chris are together and it's tearing me and Steve's heart.. I dontk now what to do..helpppppp ...I don't want to like Steve!! (link)
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Well, you cannot help who you like...your heart is the one that decides that...i think you and steve would have a good relationship since ya'll both have a lot in common and trust each other so you already know you two will get along...wait some time befor you jump to conclusions and find out what your heart really feels...
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I have this Bad habit.
I like all my best friends~Tara's~ boyfriends.
Last year,she liked this boy named Davon.Then one day my friend Ilirida asks me if I like Davon. I said he's ok.If he likes mee as a girlfriend, I'll like him as a boyfriend. But Ilirida told him I said that so he said he liked me and tara now.Me and tara spent aboput 2 months fighting over him. Our friendship got really torn up cuz of a guy. Then, Davon stoppped liking tara and only liked me. That caused BIG problems. So Taraz mad. Reallly MAD. Me and davon wer like bf-gf 4 liike 3 months wen tara started likin him agen.He dumped me. I got REALLY mad at Tara.But wen he stoppped liking both of us, we X'd him oout of our lives. but now everything is happpening alll over again. What am I suppo (link)
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As they say "History repeats itself"...its gonna be really hard this time around...you could possible end up losing Tara as your friend...its ok you secretly like you best friend's boyfriend...just dont let anybody else find out...if i were you I would find other guys on my own and find someone new to prevent this from happening again...
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Does He Like Me?
Posted Wednesday November 03 2004, 4:52 pm
Hi I am 13 years old and i am female... Here is my problem..So, for a while now, I've had my eye on this guy... He's more like my best friend... I've really really liked him since the middle of last year, I tried to move on but I couldn't, as much as I wanted to move on, I couldn't... I just liked him even more... A couple of weeks ago I told im how I felt about him, it was a bit dramatic, since I gave him this letter which was about 2 and a half pages long, mentioning everything i feel about him... He read it and he didnt mention the letter since I pretty much asked him not to mention it. You'd expect things to get peculiar between us, since we're best friends and i love him way more then that... But things have kind of gotten better... He's been "closer" to me, as in, he hugs me every minutes, puts his arm around me, follows me, tickles me, flirts with me, sits next to me, looks into my eyes, and everything... he even invites me to hang out with him and stuff....it seems like he likes me, but I dont know for sure how he really feels, I mean.. I dont have enoguh guts to walk up to him and be like "do u like me" it might put us in a peculiar stage. So, what are some signs that shows if he really feels the same way about me as I do about him??
-- PoeticxTragedy (link)
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Girl you just mentioned all the signs...he does like you!! he's just as shy as you so i think you should go up to him and ask him out....he should say yes
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