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hey! im sarah, and i live in hot atlanta!well in a suburb but o well!i have brownish hair with brown eyes and i go to ecms! i give advice and have taken some, so i would ,love to help with w/e yall need!! write me! luv ya lots!!

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well, i have known a lot of girls since my elementry school, and i would like to become good friends with these girls. most of them are my friends and others i would like to be my friends. some of the girls i would really like to be good friends with and be included with things. to most of the girls i am thought of as a friend. but i would like to be a best friend to most of them. so, what should i do?

hey! well bff just dont come out of the blue, they talk on the fone and hang out A LOT! so invite these ppl over, or just call them to talk hey i talk on the fone with my bff's and sometimes we're not even talkin! lol but we also hang out a TON! so invite them over n hav fun! good luck!

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Hey Sarah, I hav 2 gud bffs (i'm a gurl so r they), but the prob is there obsessed with those old disney movies like snow white and stuff! I wouldn't really mind, but were 12!!! almost 13! I mean theres nothin wrong with disney movies, but I think there 2 old!!! whut do i do?
signed,
confused

hey! talk to them about it ask hey lets watch another movie, and ask them y they want to watch these movies, if their ur bbfff's they should understand. hope i helped!

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its three of us. we are all best friends. but i feel like im the third wheel. hey are always hanging out without me like its no big deal. i care. what in the world do i do?

hey

idk, but like im guessin its cuz they mite live closer or something! rite now im in a lil sticky thing my friend is always nice wen its like the three of us then this other girl comes and she like leaves... its soo weird! well talk to them about, maybe u can invite them over more. i thinks its jsut cuz they r closer this doesnt mean they dont like u! maybe they mite like u more! u never kno! im sure its not wut u think! hope i helped

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My friend gets really mad at me when i hang w/ peeps she dosnt like. she wont talk to me for days how can i tell her thats she's my bbbbbbbbbbbbbfffffffffffffff but i want to hang w/ other people too??? LoVe
-Me-

well... thats happened to me, like u can do w/e u want really dont tell her that tho! lol but if shes ur friend shed let u hang out with some1 else! cuz u can hav more than one friend, just tell her ur my bbbbbbbbbbbffffff, but i have other friends too.. im sure yall both hav other friends! and maybe yall could hang out more oor something! lol good luck!

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another person on this site gave me sum advice, they told me to tell my over weight friend that she needs 2 wear more clothes u how less skin. so i did wut they said, she blocked all my s/n's on aol msn nd yahoo!! i cant call her cause she hangs up on me wen i do. shes my bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbb--ff!!! nd now she hates me wut should i do? should i wait 4 her 2 chill u no think it over?

hey!

bad advice! u could just like mention it to her or somrthing, but u prob shouldnt hav taken their advice! rem this is 7th grade! or w/e grade ur in! this wont really matterin a month! lol ya, like shell be mad at u for a lil, but explain to her that it was advice from some1, or some1 told u to say that.. make sure she knos the truth do not lie! lol all friends just need to steam and just be kept alone for a while and eventually shell forgiv u! hope i helped!

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Hey, (14/f) I am friends with my exboyfriend. We talk a lot, and are pretty close. I am going to a different school this year so it's going to be really hard to see him and talk to him, but i really value our friendship. Whenever we talk though he alwayse brings up other girls, and how hott they all are. I know that I shouldn't get jelous since we are just friends now, but i do. So I can't deside weather he is making me feel jelous so i dont forget him, or if he is just talkin to me like a close friend.

-Really confused

hey! well if yall r close then im sure hes just talkin to u being his colse friend, he prob isnt tryin to make u jealous ppl at my school always do that! lol good luck!

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i have this 1 friend who gets on da net just starts talking 2 ramdom guys. wen they give her their # she tells pll dat they go 2 her school but moved soshe gets pll 2 3 way m cause she doesnt have long distance. not 2 long ago she was talking 2 dis guyy named matt nd she told me dat he went 2 her school but moved 2 arizona. so i belived her nd called him now she doesnt talk 2 him nd i found out dey dont no each other. shes relly stressed bout not talking 2 him how do i tell het that his not worth it. i'm afraid shell cut her self cause dats wut she does wen she gets mad

hey hun,

well u should never make a big deal over some guy! they are not worth ina few years this wont even matter! u need to tell her to stop talkin to ppl hoo she doesnt kno also, thats how some ppl get raped, and kidnapped! cuttin ur self doesnt help at all! make sure she doesnt! just tell her to get over it, cuz trust me it will never matter! lol hope she gets ova him!

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plz u all i'm bout 2 loose my best friend..ok look...we were supose 2 meet @ 1 of our hang outs ...n then i didnt show up..n i didnt call her and she got pissed but i have done these things b4 not meaning to hurt her i had just had a death in my family (father) and everything was hecktic..i have told her this over n over again...she doesnt get it...wat do i do???

hey!

ur father died and ur best friend doesnt understand?!?! wut kind of friend is she!? sry but shes really gettin made for something really stupid! u prob deserve better! good luck!

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OK
every1 always tells me that impopular just becuz i have lots of friends well all summer my bestfriends and i have been hangin out and im kinda getting sick of them and now im going into middleschool and i kina wanna hang out wit other people but i dono wut to do. i have lots of other friends but i dont wanna abandin my bestfriends.

Wut Should I Do?

take a brake from them, like just spend some time apart and maybe yall will get a long better! but you'll mett a lot of new ppl at middle school things should work out!

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hey i was da 1 dat has moved a lot nd hates alot of pll, well the reson i hate m is cause they r all mean 2 me, i have a lot of great friends from school but i just dont click w/ da pll in my neighborhood. i'm relly dif from m.i tryed 2 talk 2 m but they get mad at me, wut should i do 2 make m listen?

hey!

man thats gotta be harsh! well just try to do something they mite like, like try to fit in, and if u just cant, well actually im pretty sure there has to one person in ur neighborhood or school that likes u as a friend just wait for a lil and some1 should be like u! good luck!

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Hey sarah,
its me again....the girl w/ the best friend that her parents dont lik....the reason they dont like her is because she acts like such a cheerleader and talks really arrogantly....and she also lies bout stuff to be the center of attention. please help me...
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i donno wut to do

hey hun,

well talk to the girl! maybe shell try to even to talk it out with her, she is ur best friend and cant hav ur parents not likin her! well i hope things work out! writ me sumtime!

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hey sarah one of my friends used 2 be like a really good friend but now its kinda like she changed but she hasnt. its weird because we were best friends and stuff and then se started hanging out with some1 else and then she started to act like them and its annoying. i want her the way she used too be. ide kid around with her and she used too laugh and stuff and ide buy something stupid and she think it was a stupid funny u know? well now i bought something stupid and she thinks its like ugly and really stupid i guess. i think shes changing but i cant tell. plz help me!

omg! im in the exact same thing! well how bout u go and find a new friend! shes not bein a real friend to u and sweetie u deserve so much better im sure u have another friend hoo will do that! god its weird how much these things r alike! lol well i hope it all works out!its not stupid! write me sumtime!

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see i like this friend at my pool but umm he knows it and every 1 else does too. and every 1 is callin me rebound gurl and it hurts and i fell like a really dum person and i don't like him anymore but he thinks i do so what should i do?

dear confused girl

that has happened to me b4! lol well, it sux i kno! but really just like some1 else, that mite like u, or just say shut up or go away, wut matters is that u kno u dont like him, but just plain out say i do not like u ne more! to his face! u shouldnt feel dum it happens to everyone! lol write me sumtime!

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Hey Sarah,
i've got a big problem. I have known this girl for 3 years and she has become by best friend....but my parents dont like her....what can I do about this? Please give me advice!
Tons of love,
me

hey!
well, why do ur parents hate her? talk to them about it, explain to them that w/e she did or does is something does, idk cuZ i need 2 kno why they dont like her. well just tell ur parents that shes ur best friend and that u can still see her if u want 2! and tell them she is really nice n stuff! well write me sumtime!

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