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im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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E-mail: tmac01134@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: fort worth, tx.
Occupation: supervisor
Age: 16
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Yahoo: iliveinazoo15
MSN: tmac01134
Member Since: July 15, 2005
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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup? (link)
if he has taken more than 1 girls virginity, and has also had people on the side, their is no way this guy cares. he was just using you weekness (crying on his shoulder) and used it as a power (kissing you). if he was really intrested, he would'nt be cheating. You say that you dont even really like him that anymore, so just tell him that he needs to try and find a girl that he is relly intrested in. if you really are intrested in him, and you feel that you 2 should get back togehther, just tell him- "hey, i like you, and if you wanna go out with me, you can't have another girl on the side." if he refuses, he ither likes the other girl better, or he's just a natural cheater. hope this helped.




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