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My friend cuts herself. And it really scares me she talks about killing herself sometimes. Like she thinks no one would miss her. Sometimes I wanna kill myself too but I realize how many people would miss me. But she doesn't seem to realize that. She doesn't cut herself often like she only did once but I am just scared it might become a habit. What should I do? And its not that serious enough to tell anybody yet and she would get really mad if I told anyone. I don't plan on doing anything until it gets worse like i see marks on her arms. What should I do to keep her happy and keep her not thinking about killing herself? I'm so scared right now please help me! I rate High and leave comments too! (link)
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You can't help her that much .. I have been in that situation too before .... But seriously you can't HELP her .. Maybe shes doing it for attention? but if she doesnt tell ppl .. like okay if she goes around telling ppl about she does have a problem .. but it's not that shes that suicidal its more like she wants attention .. if she doesnt tell anybody and she keeps cutting she does need help .. my bff Serena had a friend named Lexis and Lexis cut and Serena found marks on her arms but never told ANYONE ever .. Lexis kept cutting for over 4 months .. then her mother found out and they talked to lexis and serena and serenas mom .. Lexis didnt go to a shrink she lied after a few weeks and kept cutting .. she hid it from Serena and everyone .. she still cuts and has terrible self confidence .. Serena needed to tell but she didnt want to get Lexis mad at her .. she should have .. because now Lexis is in the hospital with cut marks all on her arms and so skinny because she starved her self and Serena never told on her .. Your friend needs help .. if you want to wait ... wait .. but only if you knows for a fact things arent getting worse .. as for helping her yourself without telling .. the best you can do is NEVER judge her .. tell her you there for her ... and even if you cant give her good advice or talk her out of cutting .. let her know you there for her and just be there for her .. but kind but firm .. Hope I helped .. and if things do get worse ...TELL!
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my friend cuts herself just for the heck of it. she doesnt know why either. i know it sounds crazy but she does it anyways. i've tried to talk to her about it and she promise she'd stop but i see cut marks on her all the time recently and much more than usual. what should i do? should i tell somebody....please help!
signed....scared for my friend (link)
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I've been in tha SAME situation!!! Except I was tha cutter...she probably just SAYS she does it fer tha heck of it when really deep down inside she is miserable..cutters cut themselves fer a reason!! it in their head..trust me i noe..i have gotten help but i use to cut n for a long time tha only person who new was my bff..i did EVEYTHING i could so she wouldnt tell...when in tha end my mom found out bc she found sum notes between me n my bff bout it...but u defenitly need to talk to her bout it..tell her u are always there ot talk..bc that helps..n Maybe u should tell. I know i didnt want my bff to tell but thats bc i was scared of what would happen..U should think bout telling though! Cutting is really serious n someday she could/might hit a vain n she could die...so u prolly should say something to SOMEONE her mom,dad, or maybe one of ur parents n see what they think! Hope i helped some!! Good luck fer you n your friend!!!
Much Love!
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