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alright i already asked this but I left out some important info...new info is in caps lock...
A couple of weeks ago I was invited to go to the NJ shore with one of my best friends, Sam. I was very excited...each of her siblings is bringing a friend, and she chose me to go for the week with her & her family! Just today, however, she called me and was like "I just found out Catherine is coming too, is that all right?" Obviously I said yes...I wasn't going to be rude & tell her no. However Catherine is Sam's friend (their families are good friends too) and she does not go to my school. I have met her before, & she is very nice, but I really don't know her well. To be honest, I am not sure that I am so psyched to go anymore, because she is going to have Catherine there too. I know it sounds mean, & I have nothing against Catherine, but it just seemed rude that Sam never mentioned she would be there before. I BELIEVE SAM'S MOM INVITED CATHERINE'S WHOLE FAMILY, WHICH IS WHY I AM UNCOMFORTABLE. HER PARENTS ARE SORT OF "WILD" THEY DRINK A LOT AND ARE BASICALLY PARTY ANIMALS. THIS MAKES BOTH ME & MY MOM UNCOMFOTABLE. ALSO, MY DRIVING TEST IS SOON, AND I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO PRACTICE FOR THE WHOLE WEEK IF I GO. ALSO, MY SISTER & COUSINS ARE GOING FOR A FEW DAYS TO MY GRANDPARENTS HOUSE, WHICH I WOULD MISS OUT ON. I honestly don't know if I want to go anymore...I mean I am sure it would still be fun but it is just not the same. Do you think it is silly for me to be upset? Should I just go, or should I decline? I do have reasons (as noted above -more than one) of why it might not be the best idea to go, but I would also feel like sam would be upset if I didn't go. What should I do, and how do I talk to her (either way i need to talk to her). (link)
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All you need to do is think if you really want to go. You could make a new friend and see some new stuff. If you don't get along with that other girl than you don't get along. You don't have to be BEST buddies. You just have to be nice to her for the week then you can forget about it. If you don't want to go anymore due to the drinking tell your friend you really want to go see yuor grandmother and you have to practcie for your drivers test. Just be really nice about it though. And wish her a good time. Happy typing!
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i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!
What should i do!
signed,
brittany (link)
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Go to your friends home and talk to her about it. Even if she doesn't speak back tell her you are always there for her and if she would like to explain she can. Tell her she should tell her parents and they can get the police. They can help her. No one is going to hamr her. If she wants help she is going to have to help us too! Happy Typing
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