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im ussualy the one helping my friends with problems but how can you help people when you cant even find out hwo to help urself, okay so yeah im ussualy on 3 way with my *good* friends and they always refer back to the time when i cutt myself, i mean it probably wasnt the smartest thing to do. but they just dont get it i didnt know what to do wiht my self at that time and there always telling me how stupid it was. they dont understand how it is to get the the point where u dont know what to do or how to feel becasue your so confused if you still wanna live. what should i say next time they say anything?

Ok you just need to tell them hey you know what it's over ok and im not proud of it but You don't understand and you won't so please just don't bring it up! you just need to confront them with the fact that they don't know how it feels and they never will because everyone is different .. So they just need to let it go because obviously your not prou dof it and have hopefully stopped and tried to forget about it and thats wut they need to do too

Jackie

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hey jackie...i have a feeling you should really know who this is...but ok i've been fighting with one of my really good friends and now i think everything has settled down for a while...but now that we're kind of done fighting i'm scared i might like him again...and i'm not the kind of person who could just go up to him and say you know i like you and all that especially because we just got done fighting..and he's liked me before but now i don't know what to do especially because he's always flirting with other girls and he doesn't seem to have any interest in me anymore...so what should i do?? because i'm scared if i talk to him he's gonna act weird around me and all and i really don't want that to happen because i don't want to fight with him anymore...so i don't know what i should do?? HELP!
-screwed and confused

- screwed and confused ..

I really think you should tell him because there is no other way to get all this off your chest but to tell him .. if he has liked you before then he most likely wont act wierd around you because he knows wut it is like .. i don't see how this could cause a fight. If you just tell him how your feeling and respect what ever response he gives you good or bad maybe you could have one of his friends talk to him ;-) lol but that is intirley up to you .. There is no way to see where you stand with him n in eachothers lives then to just talk to him just ask him.. "Are we going anywhere" even though that may not be you sometimes love hurts and it makes you take some risks but they should be worth taken because you could have a good answewr and if you don't then atleast you had the courage and its better to know then to wonder.. If your afraid of it ruining your friendship it won't if you sincerely make the effort to stay friends... You need to tell him and he deserves to know .. Thats all i can really say

~Love~
Jackie

Hope i helped

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hye jax~ well we talked bout it and its ova we had many good times im happy that i dont have to go through wit it anymore but im scared to see him just like as a friend i cant look at him the same way anymore ita going o be so different im just worried

Just be yourself and don't worry nothings gunna change except you wont be huting eachother any more hehe well ill be there too luv yoo
Jackie

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hey jax~ ive been in this fite with this kid(a boy)u should know for a relli long time. and finnally were ending this stupid fite!Though i was relli wondering if we would be ably to be friends. Im not sure cause he hit me and we did some relli bad shit to each other. I dont even think its ova yet!I want to be friends but i dont think its gonna be the same jax wat should i do????
Love Carolyn

Carolyn~ You guys did stuff to eachother that is very brutal .. now i think that if you SENCERLEY go up to this "boy" and just sorry and admitt that you lost the whole fight that you guys could be friends. Just work on not annoying him and bothiering him all the time because thats wut gets him the most if you just leave him alone sometimes and not always try to be by him there is a very likely chance that you guys can be friends. However, even if you're not sry and dont think you lost just say it becasue if you want to be friends that couldn't hurt. Friendship is a tough issue because it depends on both of the people but the most you can do is just say sorry for everything and hope he says it back then build off of that and don't smother him by always being there too much kk? .. Well i hope i helped and i hope it all worked out .. You are a good person .. Love you
Jackie

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