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hey everyone!! my name is michelle... ive been a member since last year and i didnt get online much because of soo many problems!! but im back and ready to give you guys the best advice i can!! xoxo!!

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Okay so i drink maybe once or twice a month right. And this friend of mine really wants me to stop but i dont think its that big of a deal. i know she wants me to stop because she cares but i dont wanna stop and now shes preasuring me into something that i dont wanna do. what should i do?

well... your friend just cares about you and thats why shes telling you that... its your life and you make your own decisions... however... drinking is bad when you cannot control it... so you just have to see how far your willing to go for a friend and if you can control it... good luck buddy lol (even though weve already talked about this) x's and o's

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I moved to a new state last summer and i havent made that many friends at my new school. There was this girl who was also new who didnt know anyone and she was really down to earth, so we became friends. Over the school year shes become very stuck up, materialistic, and rude to people who try to be nice and talk to her. So im her only friend, and for a while she was my only friend. Ive made some friends with some very nice guys which have invited us (me and my friend) to sit with them during lunch. She never wants to because she thinks shes too good for them. I really dont see anything wrong with them, they are just trying to be friends with her. So i told her to stop being mean and to come sit with them sometime. She always refuses, which means im stuck with her and i dont get to sit with them. Then they get upset (not mad at me) when we dont sit with them. Each day she becomes even more and more rude and i dont really want to be friends with her anymore. Sometimes i feel like she doesnt like sitting with me either. Today during lunch she was on her phone for 45 min out of 50 min. She just kept me sitting there, and when i said i wanted to go sit with the guys she said no. I got really mad and just got up and left to go sit with them because i didnt want to just sit there and listen to her conversation. It was rude for her to be on the phone the ENTIRE lunch period (which is the only time i see her). Anyways, do you think i had the right to do what i did? I know it wasnt very nice, but shes been so mean to people and i thought she deserved it. What would you do in my position?

i think you deffinently did the right thing. if she isnt being nice you to you then you shouldnt have to put up with it. you should do what you want... if that means making new friends or sitting next to those nice guys at lunch. dont let her hold you down!! good luck!!

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alright, well... my friends at school...(or atleast i think they're my friends) but anywayz..
they like dont talk to me if other friends r around...like wtf... they only talk to me if their friends arent around... like r they ashamed of me...what should i do?

just try talking to them about it... if they act bitchy or what not forget them... its their loss. you deserve better. make new friends and dont even waste you time... lifes to short. hope i helped
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hi...i was wondering y u r such a bitch to ppl and y u r sucka rucking whore????

hey well im a bitch to people because i stick up for myself and my friends. im a whore because your just jealous and thats the best diss you can think of. x's and o's

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ok so my best friend is absolutely in love with this guy and a while ago he said he liked me more than a friend...should i keep talkin to him?

well i think you should talk to your friend and see if shes alright with it. don't do anything behind her back because it'll eventually catch up with you and you'll be in deep shit. so just talk to her if its not okay then if you wanna risk a good friendship for a guy... i dont think its a wise decision... but go ahead. good luck. x's and o's

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