Hey, my name is Laine and I'm 14 years old! I know it maybe young for all you older people here ,but I give good advice and am very smart! Anyways I love to help people and give them advice! I well always try and give you the best posible answer! You can trust me and be honest with me! I'm very nice and I don't judge people!
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I have a group of best friends. Including me, there are 4 of us. Two of them seem to like to gain up on me together. Generally, it's just little things, but it still hurts. Would you like it if two people who you called your best friends made fun of you? I think not. One of my other best friends, who is not in this group, constantly tells me to stand up for myself. I just can't seem to do it. Any tips on how to assert myself? (link)
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You should definatly stand up for you self! Say like you know what you say to me hurts and it's mean! Don't be mean because that will only cause problems! Say please stop making fun of me! Just be honest and say how you feel! Hope I helped!
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OK, so [one] of my two best friends, Jake and Sophie went out for about a month. Sophie was telling me like, "I think I'm gonna break up with him. I just don't like him anymore." I was like, "All right, do what you want." Since they went out, I haven't really talked to Jake, so when Sophie broke up with him, I was hoping Jake and I could actually talk some more. They're cool now and still friends, but ever since Jake went to this party, there's been all these other girls. I mean, there always HAS been, but they haven't been as close to him as we were. But now on the phone he's like, "Oh, I gotta call you back. Other line."
"Ohh, who?" [Yea, I'm nosy.]
"One of my friends, Ayla. She's really cool. I think I'm gonna go on vaca with her."
"Oh. . and you met her when?"
"About a week."
Which is weird, cos Jake and I are SUPER close firends and we've never even gone somewhere except the movies. He also has this other girl he might ask out, and I'm sorta flipping. Asking out somebody new so soon? He just got dumped and I was HOPING to actually talk to him without his gf on the line.
I think we're departing, and there are more awkward silences on the phone than there ever was.
SOrry if this was so long. . . =/ (link)
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Well everyone handles brake-ups in a different way! So I you shouldn't worry about him and girls! You should talk to him on the phone and say hey wanna hang out and go to the movies or somewhere some time! I also suggest you guys to get AIM and talk to eachother on there! That way there can be no interferences! Umm... maybe just try to talk to him well you can! And just stay in touch and hang out more and talk more! When there are awkward silences you just have to bring up a topic like so hows your summer been or something like that! I really hope I helped!
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