Hey Guys-
I am from Laguna Beach California and now live in Southlake Texas. Yeah!!! lol We are so obsessed with frikin football. Anyways... My best friend is Kyla and we do like everything together. I like to hang with my friends and go to the movies and the mall. My favorite sport is volleyball but am not currently playing it.
E-mail: nic@thebrickbarn.com
Gender: Female
Location: Southlake
Age: 14
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Member Since: December 17, 2005
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ok, so just yesterday, 2 of my friends got in this big fight over something really stupid, & they said things that didnt need to be said or brought up, & didnt have anything to do with what they were fighting about in the first place!! & then one of the brought me into it, & got one of my friends to think that I talked crap about her, when I really dont!! I mean, they are both my friends, & I dont want them to not be friends because of this, because then I would have to choose. & one of my friends dropped the whole thing, as did I, but my other friend is still mad @ her. I mean, i can see why, but i just want her to drop it!! how can I convince her that its all over?!? please help.. (link)
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i am going through something like this also. i think that the friend that is not letting it go should just decide to drop it. tell her to say sorry and tell the other girl to say sorry as well. What happened. did someone really do something that bad to the other girl. please send me another message and maybe i can help you more.
XoNiCoLeXo
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my closest guy friend asked me out a few weeks ago and i said no. the reasons i gave him were 1 - we go to different colleges that are 100 miles apart (even though he visits me about every week), and 2 - i plan to leave the u.s. in a couple of years, so i don't want to be involved in anything that might lead to a serious relationship because then it might cause too much pain. but the thing is, even though those reasons are true, i also didn't really want to go out with him because i wasn't sure if i was attracted to him. now i think i'm beginning to have some feelings for him and i don't know what to do. we're both going to be in our hometown over the winter break and we're going to hang out a lot, but i don't know if i should tell him that i want to date him. i don't want to cause him any pain, but i'm fraid that if we went out, it might end up very painfully - either our friendship will be ruined, or it will be very painful to say good-bye when i leave. should i try going out with him or should i keep my feelings to myself? maybe it'll be easier if i try stop hanging out with him as much? (link)
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Hey-
I know that it seems like the hardest thing that you will ever have to decide, but it's really not. Think to yourself, would you rather stop haging out with him and just be friends and not go out, or would you rather go out with him and see if there is something there. You will never know if there could have been something there if you don't try to go out with him. If something like going out is going to ruin your friendship, then you guys maybe shouldn't have been friends in the first place.
Hope I helped,
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