OK so i have a friend right, & she likez thw same kid i like, but he used to like me, we were going out in way i guess but not "officially", but anyways, i still have feelings for him while hes moved on. but acording to my friend(who talks about him non-stop) he likes her. but she always is saying all this stuff about him & never shuting up! i mean i wanna b happy for her, i really do, but i just cant figure out how to be! what do i do?
-Hopelessly confuesed
if this helps any, i'm of course a gurl, n i'm 13
Well the same thing has happend to me before,
all you can do is tell your friend that you still like him or still have feelings for him, she might get upset but put in their that you are really happy for her, if this guy has moved on, try talking to him, if you cant be his GF then at least try to be his Best Friend (thats a girl) but dont shut out your other friend, be happy for her and all you can do is try to make both of you close to him.
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Example:
My BFF Tanya has another friend named Michelle
Me and Tanya Have been friends for ever
and Michelle thinks she is her BFF!
And she totally ignors me, but i could care less,
what do i do?
Well,
If michelle think she is BFFs wit cha best friend calmly explain to her that you have know Tanya for a long time, see if their is anyone else that would be willing to be BFFs with her, if she is making you feel bad tell tanya and she will talk to michelle.
but just remember something,
its ok to have 2 Best friends.
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