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E-mail: Raiganleia@yahoo.com
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Age: 22
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im 13/g and u just found IM being used. so there was this guy that was my friend and stuff. and i trusted him.so just yesterday i found out he was just acting like my friend.like, this other girl (my BFF) asked him if he just like me as a friend and he said" don't tell her this, but not at all". so know i am extremly upset. i mean i trust him with my LIFE! should i beat the carp out of him? (link)
What you should do, is just not talk to him whenever possible, because then your feelings will never go away and if he doesn't like you at all, then he wouldn't talk to you. However, if he does, just act normal or you could talk to him about how you feel, or about what he has said. He's not really worth your time if thats how he is treating you. Maybe talking to you face to face will have a different response - guys sometimes can be secretive about how they really feel, blocking out the truth, or just trying to block out all of their feelings all together. Talking to him about it, may hurt you more, but at least then you know that he really isn't worth it and you know to move on from him. To your face, he might just be super nice, but then tell him that you know, and maybe he can explain why he said that. Your choice if it's a good excuse or a bad excuse. But always give them a chance(:




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