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Q: OK this girl I've known for a long time hates me for some reason. I was crushing on her boyfriend and they broke up. We've been in many a fight and I want to be friends with her but all she does is call me a bitch or a cunt. This has been going on ever since I've met her. How do I get her to stop and maybe be friends with me? HELP
To get her away from you, when she says something to try and fight with you just stare at her, don't say anything, just have a blank face and stare until she turns away. And why would you want to be friends with her? If she is a mean person and obviously is then why would you want to be friends with someone who thinks they can walk all over you? But if you act like you don't want to be friends then that's your best bet of becomming because if you act like you do want to be her friend she'll feel she has power over you. I hope this helped, but I would not try to be her friend. Not that she would reject you but that you're better than her.

Q: okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!!
I think you should call her. She must want to get to know you if she gave you her number. I say call her.

Q: How do I rate someone after they have answered a question of mine??
You go to 'Your Questions' and click on whatever question in your inbox and under every answer there is a 'rate me' section so just read the answer and click on a number to rate the question.

Q: What if you moved away from ALL of your friends and you know you will make new ones, but you want to old ones now!?
Talk to them on the phone and on the computer, it makes you feel better. And you can fly to see them or have them fly to see you. But otherwise talking is the best way to feel close to your friends.

Q: what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do?
You should tell someone you trust about how you're feeling so they can help you. You may need to go to a doctor for help, and believe me even though it's hard to go you'll feel better in the end.

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